15/08/2023
Is it okay to wait for a person, who is not sure if he/she loves you?
A very quick answer is here. When a person says they are not sure if they love you, they are actually telling you they don’t love you. Hesitation is a response. Silence is a response. Being unsure of something or someone is a response.
I know this because I know of a lady, who was madly in love with someone for years and he always hesitated. He was never really sure, she couldn’t tell if he was the right fit even though when they were together, the stars aligned (for them anyway). He eventually met someone and invested a lot in that person within a short space of time. It became clear to her that the reason he hesitated was because he did not believe at any point in time that she was the one.
Don’t wait for anyone who is unsure about you. Love is not unsure. It does not hesitate. If a person says they might grow to love you, bear it in mind that they will grow to leave you when ‘better’ comes along.
And of course, it hurts to read this answer. But I say let your heart bleed early enough. It won’t kill you. You will meet someone. Scratch that. You will meet lots of people who will jump on board without the least bit of hesitation because they just can’t imagine their lives without you, imperfect or flawed as you may be.
Leave this person.
💟Relationship_Advice*
🫰In this generation, so many wounded souls parading to be ok, heartbroken and hurt.
🫰Singles, please, get your mental faculties restored before entering another relationship so that the next person you will date won't end up as your psychiatrist instead of being your partner.
🫰Some of you have a whole lot to deal with, someone can almost end up with a mental breakdown just by having an hour conversation with you especially If it's an argument . Go get help, and heal before you destroy your coming relationship.
🫰It doesn't matter how long, just heal from that brokenness, that trust issues, and stop seeing everyone like your EX
LISTEN DEAR!!! ✍️
S*x isn't enough, it's not the only thing you can offer a man.
If you don't have anything to offer a man outside s*x, please, remain Single.
A man can't stay with you because he is having s*x with you.
🫰Relationship is not buying and selling.
Men respect ladies that know what domestic work is.
Men love and appreciate a woman who is good and excellent in multitasking.
Men respect and honor ladies that wakes up very early in the morning to make sure that the kitchen is set. Men love and respect ladies who are always prayerful and Godly coordinated.
🫰Men respect ladies that keep their eyes at home than those that their eyes are always outside. S*x is very cheap these days, anybody can buy it.
If that guy wants to leave, Let him go!
If that Lady wants to leave, Let her go!
If someone you're in a relationship with decides to break up with, don't force them to stay or try to convince them to keep you.
If that husband wants to leave you, let him go!
If that wife wants to leave you, let her go!
One thing you have to know is this, decisions are never taken promptly. People know what they want and your energy and efforts sometimes only break you by refusing to accept reality.
Their stand to leave was made the day they told you, it was long before it was spoken out verbally.
It's either they were not good for you or it's another learning process for them and you.
Granting them freedom is best decision.
You don't hold on to people forcefully.
It's not in your power to make them stay or trying to convince people to stay in your life, no matter how good or bad a person you think you are
Time is a processor and till when you accept to let them go, that may be your greatest blessing.
The value of anything is only seen when it is missed and not common anymore or the price is high!
Letting them go sometimes is the only power you got!
Don't force people to stay, that's a discredit on you!
Don't limit your price
This is simple.
Thanks for being part of my journey.
l wish you well.
Don't always make it a tug of war when they decide to go!🫰
