01/08/2022
"I AM NOT A READER"
"I AM NOT THE READING TYPE"
I've heard this so many times. So many times! You've probably said that too.
Do you know the important thing word in these sentences?
"I"
Identity.
This is an identity problem.
Whenever someone is saying this, he or she is expressing an identity. They are saying "The Me I know is not the reading person".
There is good news. This you that you know can change. Identity is a fluid thing.
Let me use this extreme example, that you may not like. You've heard of people who say they are gay, right? Most times, they don't change their biology, but they change their IDENTITY.
How do you change your identity?
1. Join a group that looks like the person you want to become. In this case, join a book club. You know that proverb that says, a friend of a thief is a thief right? A friend of a bookworm is a .... bookworm. You gerrit?
2. Place reminders that remind you of your new identity. The reason I post on Facebook every day is so that you will see and remember to read. Do you remember how you felt when you saw one post saying something about reading and instantly you went back to read? That's what reminders do for you. This is the reason why athletes fill their rooms with photos of their heroes. It reminds them of the person they want to become. Get reminders. They can be books, they can be quotes, etc.
3. Take action towards the person you want to become. You will never change without taking action. Even small action every day makes the difference. I have always encouraged you, don't start big. Start small. Read 5 pages every day. In fact, no, read 1 page every day. Start from there. Build gradually.
If you do these 3 things for 1 year and you are not a reader, when we meet on the road, you can slap me. No kidding.
It always works.
1. Join a book club.
2. Place reminders. Reaffirm your identity.
3. Take action.
I'm off to work, see you later.