28/03/2022
25 principles of Living a perfect Single Life while preparing for marriage.
1. Be focused, learn to shut down distractions.
2. Don't be intimidated by people's lifestyles, improve yours.
3. Maintain your carriage, don't be ashamed of your single status.
4. Learn to ignore side talks that will weigh you down.
5. Be independent. Don't be a burden to people.
6. Respect yourself, don't go where you are not valued.
7. Eat well, look good.
8. Build yourself, maintain an average lifestyle.
9. Don't be too sophisticated.
10. Avoid inferiority complexes.
11. Mingle where necessary. You can belong to social organizations to build yourself.
12. Have a good tolerance level of life.
13. Once in awhile, Create time for positive leisure and hangouts.
14. Don't allow people take advantage of your singlehood.
15. Be smart, Be proactive.
16. Have various skills to boost your knowledge and livelihood.
17. Avoid families and friends, who mock your singlehood.
18. Be open to more achievement, don't limit yourself.
19. Know what you want. Don't relegate yourself to an unhealthy friendship all in the name of seeking marriage.
20. Go for counseling, do some health check up once in awhile.
21. Let your circle of friends be mixed up with both married and single friends, males and females.
22. Avoid disgraceful dramatic scenes.
23. Don't envy others, live with a good and pure heart of love. Be friendly.
24. Don't make yourself an object of pity. Who cares? Actually, Nobody.
25. Have faith in God. Always pray for direction and the spirit of discernment.
BY
ANWULI SHALOM OZOBEME