Theios International Gospel Centre Abuja

28/05/2026

https://t.me/+Zf6Pmm04b5swMTJk

25/05/2026

23/05/2026

YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE IS DYING BECAUSE YOUR S*X LIFE IS WILD

Some of you are not under spiritual attack.
You’re just trying to mix holiness with horniness.

Let’s talk like men.

1. You can’t be praying for power in the morning, then watching p**n at night.
What exactly are you expecting?
Heaven to bless you while hell is clapping for you?

You pray for purity, then scroll Instagram to find temptation.
You beg God for destiny, then chase someone’s daughter to a hotel.
You cry in worship, but moan in fornication by evening.

That’s not warfare — that’s contradiction.
You’re not growing spiritually because you’re feeding your lust more than your soul.

2. Sexual sin is a spiritual leak. It drains your authority, boldness, and closeness with God.

That’s why after s*xual sin:
You feel distant from God
You don’t want to open your Bible
You avoid real men of God
You start justifying what you once preached against
You struggle to worship like before

It’s not punishment. It’s separation.
Sin weakens your spiritual voltage.
You can’t sin boldly and still pray boldly — it doesn’t work.

3. Your fire is off because your zip is open.

The Holy Spirit does not dwell in a temple that keeps inviting lust in every weekend.
You can’t cry “Lord, use me” when you keep using your body to please strangers online.

Every time you watch p**n, you plant seeds of guilt.
Every time you ma******te, you fuel addiction.
Every time you sleep around, you dilute your spiritual oil.

Your anointing is not lost — it’s just buried under s*xual compromise.

4. You can’t chase God and girls at the same time. One will leave.

It’s either:
You die to flesh and grow in Christ
OR
You live in pleasure and die spiritually

Most brothers don’t lack calling — they lack consecration.
You want prayer and p**n. Fasting and flirting. Spirit and s*x.
That’s a recipe for spiritual paralysis.

5. God is not the problem — your lack of discipline is.

You cry, “God why don’t I feel you like before?”
But last week, you were on TikTok drooling over half-naked girls.
You ask, “God, why is my fire low?”
But you haven’t gone three days without “releasing” into your palm.

This isn’t spiritual warfare. This is self-destruction.
You’re killing your own intimacy with God — and calling it “dry season.”

6. Some of you are not weak — you’re just spiritually disconnected because your s*x life is out of control.

You’re losing your spiritual authority
Your dreams are now filled with lust
You’re no longer bold in the Spirit
You’re battling guilt, shame, addiction
You no longer hear God clearly

And guess what? It all started with that small “just once” moment.
One p**n clip.
One ma********on session.
One sneaky hookup.

Now you’re hooked.
And your fire is gone.

7. Freedom is not in “managing it” — it’s in surrender and discipline.

You don’t manage lust — you kill it.
You don’t reduce p**n — you delete it.
You don’t play with s*x — you flee.

You’ll never win spiritually until you cut off the things feeding your flesh.

Unfollow those lust pages
Block those sneaky links
Avoid the girl that only texts you at midnight
Cancel the sneaky “Netflix and chill”
Confess your struggles to real brothers who can help you stay accountable

It’s not shame — it’s spiritual survival.

FINAL WORD

Dear brother,
You’re not dry spiritually because God left you.
You’re dry because s*x has become your new savior.

But s*x doesn’t save — it steals.
Lust doesn’t build — it breaks.
P**n doesn’t relieve — it destroys.

Come back to fire.
Come back to purity.
Come back to spiritual sensitivity.

Your calling is too heavy to live with a careless zip.
Your future family, your ministry, your purpose — depends on this war.

Win it.

22/05/2026

Building a Lasting Marriage

Marriage is not sustained by beauty, money, or status alone; it is sustained by the way couples treat and speak to each other daily. Just as a gardener carefully waters and nurtures a tree, husbands and wives must intentionally nurture their relationship with love, kindness, and encouragement.

Many marriages dry up because couples only notice faults and failures. Constant correction without appreciation creates bitterness in the heart. Nobody feels happy where they are constantly condemned. But when appreciation becomes a habit, love grows stronger and peace fills the home.

A simple “thank you,” “I appreciate you,” “well done,” or “I am proud of you” can bring healing and strength to a spouse. Encouraging words are like rain to a thirsty tree. They refresh the heart and bring emotional closeness.

In marriage, words are seeds. Whatever you plant consistently will grow. If you plant anger, insults, and criticism, sadness will grow. But if you plant kindness, patience, respect, and encouragement, joy and unity will flourish.

Dear couples, never use your mouth to destroy the person you once prayed for. Speak life into your marriage. Correct with love, communicate with wisdom, and handle each other gently. Sometimes, your spouse may not need money or gifts first; they may simply need understanding and reassuring words.

Young men and women preparing for marriage should also learn this lesson early: a successful marriage is built not only on love but on good communication, emotional maturity, patience, and mutual respect.

A healthy marriage is not the absence of disagreement; it is the presence of love even during disagreement. Couples who choose understanding over pride and peace over unnecessary arguments build homes that stand strong through every season of life.

May our homes be filled with laughter instead of bitterness, understanding instead of conflict, and encouragement instead of condemnation. May every marriage blossom with peace, joy, unity, and lasting love.

Lastly note that marriage cannot survive with only one partner doing everything for the union to work, it has to be the effects of both with intentionality put in place. Otherwise, even God ordained marriages with good people will still fail.

May God bless grant us good understanding in Jesus name. Amen.

22/05/2026

The kind of friends you should keep

18/05/2026

Join us tonight for a wonderful encounter

11/05/2026

Calvary greetings and a blessed new month to you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

We thank God for bringing us into the beginning of a new month. We step into this season with renewed strength, fresh grace, and a deeper sense of purpose.

You are warmly invited to a powerful time of prayer and spiritual encounter as we focus on raising leaders equipped for impact across all sectors.

This will be a time of intentional prayers, divine empowerment, and impartation for excellence, diligence, and leadership capacity.

*Date:* Monday, 11th May 2026
*Time:* *9:00 PM – 10:00 PM*
*Venue:* Telegram

*Meeting Link:*
https://t.me/+Zf6Pmm04b5swMTJk

It will not be business as usual. God will surely visit us, and we are confident that every encounter this year will produce testimonies.

God bless you as you make time to pray.

06/05/2026

Absolutely Heart Breaking😭😭😭😭😭

THE SU***DE NOTE WRITTEN BY A 15-YEAR OLD GIRL - LESSONS FOR ALL. BROKE MY HEART

“Dear mum,
It’s with a heavy heart that I write you this note, knowing the amount of pain it is going to cause you.

Mum, I want you to know that I love you dearly and will ever love you. If I am given the opportunity to live again I will still choose you as my mum and our family will still be my place of birth.

But unfortunately, I know that there is not going to be any such opportunity.

Mum, I didn’t want to do this, but I was compelled by circumstances beyond my control to take the plunge.

I tried my best to pull through, but my best was not good enough. I battled alone for about thirteen months now until my strength failed me.

You and dad could not decipher what I was going through and maybe I should not blame you for that.

My one and only brother came very close to understanding what I was passing through but it was too much for his young mind to comprehend.

Mum, I know that you and dad loved me and did everything you could to prove that to me but I was not feeling loved.

You provided for me more than I even wanted, took me to places that most of my mates have not even heard of, yet despite all these my heart was longing for love.
I needed someone who would love me for who I was. I needed someone who could reach to the depth of my soul and feel the vacuum there.

The material provisions you spoiled me with could not do that. And I was alone all the while, despite the fact that we laughed together and had gist as a family.
Then came the last straw that broke the camel’s back.

Your brother, Uncle Tony who came to live with us, made me to believe that he knew exactly what my soul was longing for – companionship.
He chose to stay with me when you and dad were too busy to notice my loneliness.

He tried to keep me company when I needed someone to talk to but had only gadgets and teddy bears as my company. I was fooled to trust him and he hacked into my foolishness. And he did it perfectly and deeply.

Mum, your brother r***d me and used me as s*x toy for three whole years. I expected you or dad to notice but none of you did.
When he left our house last year I was shattered because I have grown to fill the void of your presence with his dirty deeds. I couldn’t complain because I was afraid to lose him, but when he eventually left for Canada the magnitude of the emptiness in me became too heavy for me to carry.
I struggled to forget those experiences but I could not. My grades dropped in school and you and dad quickly arranged for a home lesson teacher.

Mum, that singular act instead of helping me fueled what is about to happen to me a few minutes from now.

The home lesson teacher you brought so much reminded me of Uncle Tony and, on several occasions, I felt like grabbing him and making him to fill the gap that Tony’s absence created in me.
Mum, I had to do this because I was lonely. Did you ever imagine what I was doing in my room all the time I stayed there alone? Couldn’t you for once have gone out of your way to just spend some time with me so that we could talk?

There are many things I would have liked to tell you but I don’t want to add to your pain so let those other torments be buried with this undignified body of mine.

Please make sure that my brother David doesn’t get to the point where I am now.

Also, tell your friends and colleagues who have children to find out what is happening with their beloved kids before it gets too late.

Many of the things parents do in the name of showing love are not what we the younger ones need.
I would have gone, long hours before you will get to read this note.

But one cheering thing is that David is still there with you. Transfer the love you had for me to him.

My bank details and the passwords to my phones and laptops are all in the piece of paper I dropped in the drawer of your dressing table.

I miss you and it pains to empty the content of this bottle in my hand into my mouth but I am constrained to do it all the same.
Tell dad and David that I love them. Tell our pastor that I will miss his sermons and long prayers. Tell my friends not to envy me.

Goodbye mum.”

That was the su***de note a 15-year old girl dropped for her mother before taking her life.

You may save someone's life if you pass this story to all contacts in your phone.

1. Parents, do you find yourself to be “too” busy and tired to be in the present moment with your children? Are you more invested in your job and house duties than spending time with your kids?

2. Let your child know they are loved for who they are, and that you are always there to support them.

3. For the past few weeks, the social media has been awashed with many su***de stories on the pages of the media. Many more may still come.

4. Be a supportive parent and actively listen without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges. Being a supportive parent means having your child’s best interests at heart but also being present, involved and helpful.

5. Treat your child fairly and develop a trusting relationship.

6. Always acknowledge your child's achievements and supporting them through mistakes and challenges.

7. Parents, let's ALWAYS be there for our children in the way that we would have wanted our parents to be there for us.
CTTO: Coolest Human Alive..

Intentional parenting is what the kids of today's generation need. May we become the kind of parents that they need.

💔😭

Copied😢😰


***de