26/08/2025
*DOMINION MANDATE DAILY DEVOTIONAL*
*TUESDAY, AUGUST 26, 2025*
*THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER*
*BIBLE READING: PROVERBS 31:10; PROVERBS 20:6; PROVERBS 22:3; GENESIS 1:26-28*
*"And the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18x(NKJV)*
One of the most Apparent Truths which can never be denied is that the Lord God Almighty Himself is the Source and Origin of the Marriage Institution. In other words, the Marriage Institution or the Order of Holy Matrimony was ordained by God Himself. The implication here is that it takes the Marriage Covenant for Total Dominion to be actualized, hence Marriage is in itself undoubtedly a Force to be reckoned with. It would interest us to know that the Trinity or Godhead is a Direct Result of the Marriage between God the Father, the Son, and The Holy Spirit *(1Jn. 5:7).* God always created everything in pairs, a point which also underscores the Importance of the Marriage Institution, therefore the issue of finding a suitable spouse is paramount because it takes two to tango *(Amos 3:3).* Of a Truth, two or more is indeed a Force of Multiplication and Dominion *(Ecc. 4:9).*
The following are some of the Basic Steps involved in discovering a suitable spouse or helper in the Marriage Institution:
*(1.) Compatibility:* Anytime a man gets, as it were, oversized or undersized material, it becomes quite a frustrating place to be *(Ps. 42:7).* One major way to identify a suitable spouse is that he/she fits right into your world, and both of you complement one another.
*(2.) Unity of Purpose:* Understand that if you are an Adam, then your Eve will always be found within your Garden. In other words, God always plants your Eve near your Garden, and one way to discern her is when she approaches the aforementioned Garden, which is your God-given Assignment on Earth. She comes as a co-labourer. Therefore, when you think about Marriage, first think about your Purpose *(Gen. 24:43, 48).* If any woman you want to marry is unwilling to support your God-given Assignment, she might be a knife rather than a wife.
*(3.) God's Direction:* The choice of who you marry should not be determined by you alone even though man has been given the Power of choice in this matter *(Prov. 3:5-6).* The God Factor should come into play by asking Him to direct you. This doesn't necessarily mean that God will speak with an Audible Voice, but He would quicken your discernment. Always check your Inner Peace if you want to marry someone, i.e., each time you think about the Marriage and you lose your Peace, that is a key pointer that all is not well.
*(4.) Submission:* You must also check if the person you want to marry submits to Authority as well as the level of their Submission *(1Cor. 11:3-5).* This is so important because a headless head would soon be beheaded.
*(5.) The Fear of God:* You have to consider whether the person is truly God fearing. This is extremely important because any person who fears nobody is indeed a person to be feared *(Prov. 28:28).* Take heed to these guidelines, for they will help you to make the right choice of a suitable spouse.
*PRAYER:*
Heavenly Father, we magnify You for Your Unending Love towards us. O Lord, please grant us the Insight to discern the Riches of Your Wisdom in the area of Marriage in Jesus' Mighty Name. Amen.