10/03/2022
WATCH YOUR MOTIVATIONS!!
That a man loves you and gives you all that you need is not enough to accept to marry him if you don't love him. If you accept, one day you will be tired of the gifts because your heart does not seems to connect in love. One day, the love he has for you will just fade away because you are unable to love him back. One day you will just desire another man that you think you can love. One day you will tell him that you are tired of everything, and one day you will tell him that you need a divorce. At the end, what did you gain??? Vanity upon vanity... all is vanity.
Marry not because of money, but marry because two of you loves yourselves enough to cope in high and low times. You must be convinced enough that you two can work out your destinies together. Love must not be a one way traffic, love must be balanced. If love is one sided, the one who loves automatically becomes a slave to the one that is loved.
In marriage, once the love equation is balanced, the next thing to carefully check is the vision and passion of a man. If a rich man has a vision and passion that you loved to partner with, blessed art thou, but if you don't love him enough to partner with, quit. If your man does not have the money but he has the vision that you love, and he is passionately pursuing it, don't quit, encourage him. You are there to help him achieve that vision. Ready made man can never give you the best, but if you make your own man from the scratch, he cannot toy with you easily. On the other hand, no matter the size and weight of a man's vision, if he is not passionately pursuing it, run away, because vision without passion, backed with actions will remains a mirage, a dream or mere imagination.
Who do you call a dream man and what is your motivation for marriage??
May you never be a victim of fatal marital decisions in Jesus name.
