29/04/2026
Please advise him responsibly
Good day! please I have a problem with my wife which I admit was all my fault from beginning, I was an Uber driver before, also a very big serial cheater when I was younger while doing Uber, I will say nothing but the truth cos i want her to forgive me, sometimes I bring some clients home and sleep with them, she has caught me several times and kept crying, even moved out, I went to beg with my family and she came back months after but I still continued again after some times, you know I'm a man so you understand, after many years of marriage you may be tired of sleeping with only your wife, so after long, I notice this is my lifestyle and I cannot change, so I told her let us do open marriage, besides, our children have grown and are in boarding school, she cried and refused but after long since I cannot still stop, she now accepted, so everyone was doing their thing without worry, so last two years I had a very terrible acc!dent which totally damaged my car beyond repair and destroyed my legs, I stayed in the hospital for 1 year and 3 months before I was discharged, since then, I've been using wheelchair, all my money finished in the hospital we couldn't even pay rent, luckily, my wife's friend helped her get a new job and we relocated, her boss was the one that paid the house rent, so now she's been dating her boss since she started that new work, eventhough he's a good man cos he buys lots of food items and bring home but my problem now is that two of them will be fvcking in the room, my wife will lock my wheelchair in the parlor and I cannot move, I only keep listening to her m0an!ng, oh my God and so on, this people do it almost everyday once he brings her back from work, it's really affecting my health bcos of my age now, I've told her that I'm no longer interested in the open marriage but she refused, so I don't know what else to do, please I need help and advice and keep me anonymous please, thank you