19/08/2024
Few years back my childhood friend and I grew apart for no reason. Even when I tried reaching out several times to have a proper understanding of what was going on, we couldn't.
We decided it was best everyone move on and that was exactly what we did.
There was no argument. There was no fight at least none that I knew of. We simply just grew apart.
I was so brothered at first but then I came to realize that people outgrow certain people or friendship and that is very okay.
There are people meant to be in your life for a specific period of time, they are not meant to be there forever. It doesn't make them bad because they were once good to you.
People grow apart for allot of reasons and that is okay. The only thing that is not okay about that is speaking ill of that person simply because you two grew apart.
What is not acceptable is spilling things that were once discussed with you in trust and confidence simply because you two grew apart.
What is not okay is continuously trying to force yourself in places that you are clearly no longer wanted.
What is not okay is continuously trying to force energies or friendships that is no longer matching with yours.
What is not okay is forgetting all the kindness and goodness that was once showed to you by that person.
Allot of people do not understand that just because they outgrew certain people or friendships in their lives does not automatically make them ene.mies.
Allot of people do not understand that simply because someone can no longer be there for you does not mean they no longer wish you well.
Allot of people do not understand that just because you two can no longer be there for each other, does not in anyway means that you now have to be against each other.
Please stop turning against people that were once good to you simply because you are no longer their favorite person. Especially if that person was once good to you.
Accept the fact that they you both have played a role in each other's lives and move on.
Normalize accepting the fact that people outgrow each other and just because they did does not make them your ene.mies.
cc marcus
