24/08/2026
NRC CG QUESTION AND ANSWER WITH SIR MWAYI
*QUESTION 1*
So sir @Sir COACH MWAYI the first question is how do you know that you are not grieving the holy spirit in your conduct when you are not doing anything that is bad I mean sin ?
*ANSWER*
When you do something wrong you feel it inside, the Holyspirit reveals to you where you're wrong.
However, the easiest way to know it is doing something contrary to the word. When you're doing things contrary to the word then very likely you're grieving the Spirit.
Note: The Holyspirit isn't easily grieved. He is not a short tempered man.
QUESTION 2
Sir I don't understand this verse
What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops.
-- Matthew 10:27
*ANSWER*
He simply meant what He teaches them privately they should teach it publicly when the time comes. The ear simply means receiving the message.
*QUESTION 3*
Sir Sir COACH MWAYI is it okay for a Christian who is a believer and a born again Christian to have a best friend who is a Muslim?
*ANSWER*
It depends on what the friendship is all about. For example, if the Muslim helps you in your studies then that's okay.
However, when it comes to the issues of religion it's not okay since your Faith is different.
*QUESTION 4*
Sir Sir COACH MWAYI age in relationship does it matter I mean is it a must that a Man should be bigger than a Man ?
If yes why and if no explain again
*ANSWER*
Age can matter and may also not matter depending on the person.
Some people are small but they act mature. Some are old but they act babish.
Therefore, you analyse the character of a person first if they can handle a serious relationship osati zammahedge zi.
*QUESTION 5*
Sir Mwai I have a question:
In a world where people (including some born agains)are just moving and living without realizing their purpose of life.As christians,how do we deal with the issue of identity crisis?
I submit Sir
*ANSWER*
~The word of God gives us right identity. That's why we attend CG service to get to know ourselves.
~Secondly, the Spirit of God reveals our identity purpose from within. So we ask Him to reveal that to us.
~Thirdly, men of God by the anointing inside them they help us to understand who we are in God.
*QUESTION 6*
Coach Sir COACH MWAYI how can one strengthen her or his faith when things on the ground are not working like she or he's praying for his family it's when his parents a planning to divorce
*ANSWER*
Keep praying, find people who have strong faith to pray for you and with you, ask God to strengthen your faith about the matter if you see your faith is going down.
Keep focusing on what is happening in the spirit and not what is happening in the physical
*QUESTION 7*
Sir@Sir COACH MWAYI how can a believers balance spiritual life and physical life??
I understand now days most believers we fail to balance these two🫣
*ANSWER*
Just invest in aspects of life. For instance ,Feed your spirit with the word of God just as you feed your physical stomach with physical food. All them are necessary to invest in even though the spiritual is paramount.
*QUESTION 8*
When God shows up and opens the vision of your life, and it is taking years to be fulfilled, does it indicate that you missed the assignment? And can sin contribute to the failure of what God showed you?
*ANSWER*
Did he specify the time?
How do you know the time has passed?
Just make sure you do things inline with the vision you were shown. Pray more in tongues for that helps you to align to God's will. And yes sin may sometimes draw you away from the God given prophecy.
*QUESTION 9*
Sir @Sir COACH MWAYI is it okay for a girl to propose to a guy?
*ANSWER*
Does a lady lose anything if she does so? Some cultures like in India ladies do propose to men and it's normal.
Therefore, it all depends on the culture. However, in our culture it is taken to be wrong and let's respect that. Ladies shouldn't propose.
Note: If you're afraid of being rejected go to India, asiyeni achina Prosperina wa, uko mukachita kufunsiridwa ndi Ka mmwenyeso
*QUESTION 10*
@Sir COACH MWAYI
When most of the times you want to study academic stuff, comes in mind that be reading bible. And it happens mostly.
1. Isn't going ahead with studies ignoring the word of God?
2. Can't abandoning studies for bible affect your academic performance. Taking into account the frequency of occurrence.
Thank you
*ANSWER*
Time for bible study should be time for bible study, time for school studies should be time for school studies. Give time for all that.
Inuyo mwina simuwerenga Bible and the Holyspirit perhaps just reminds you that you don't have time for your Bible but only your school notes and the only time He can get your attention is when you're about to study your school notes. That's just my thing.
Za school ziwerengani, ma lecturer samafunsa ma bible verses
*QUESTION 11*
Sir @Sir COACH MWAYI Why did Jesus tell us to FREE from immorality but RESIST the devil?
*ANSWER*
Where did Jesus say that?
Ofcourse somethings we fight/resist if we are strong and somethings we don't fight we flee from them like the immorality due to the weakness of the flesh
*QUESTION 12*
If someone has lost fire i.e feeling like may be the Holy ghost has left, what can one do so that he can feel the presence of the Spirit again??
*ANSWER*
If someone has lost fire they must ask God to restore it and God is a God of restoration.
Note: Sometimes it may not necessarily mean that you have lost the fire. It may mean you are just dry due to lack of exercising spiritual activities like, prayer, fasting, reading the Bible, going to a church etc
*QUESTION 13*
Sir@Sir COACH MWAYI
How to find life partner and where can you find her or him?
This has been a concern where it reach at point to say finding life patner on the streets is a sin🫣
*ANSWER*
People find life partners in church, school, work places etc. No where in the Bible does the Bible say finding a life partner in the street is sin though.
So to answer your question you can find a life partner at church
*QUESTION 14*
Sir ..
You're praying for something, like you really want that thing in your life and you're praying hard for it, but then the opposite is happening like instead of getting that thing , it's when you're being frustrated, is that a sign that God doesn't want you to have it or what? I don't understand
*ANSWER*
It depends most of the times as long as the thing is good then God wants you to have it but the enemy is trying to frustrate you so that you don't get it.
Most of the times it's because you're in spiritual fight and therefore you keep pushing.
Secondly, you ask God if there's something wrong or where you're missing it and the Spirit reveals it to you if there's something you must do or you shouldn't do
*QUESTION 15*
@Sir COACH MWAYI I don't understand about new and old testament. Is old testament not relevant to new testament. Or is ñew testament replaced old testament?
*ANSWER*
Old testament was a Shadow of the realities to come.
We can't understand the reality if we don't understand the shadow. For example, the animals blood were covering sin: the shadow. Jesus's blood takes away sin: the reality
*QUESTION 16*
Sir if you promised your girlfriend to marry her at specific year and that year is closer now but your broke, you don't have money, no any business but that lady is running a business, would you marry her or waiting for your breakthrough?
*ANSWER*
No I wouldn't marry her because as a man I have to be a provider for the house because the man is supposed to be the head of the house.
Normally when a lady has money and the man has no money, the man loses his voice in the house as the leader. Yes some ladies are different who may respect a man who doesn't have money but they're very few who can do that.
You don't run a family with speaking in tongues only, you will need food, rentals etc and all that requires money. Therefore, I would advise to wait until you have a stable financial source. Osati kuti ulemele Kaye but waiting to have a stable financial source.
Note: If you trust your woman then marry her whilst you don't have a stable financial source but that's very risky
*QUESTION 17*
@Sir COACH MWAYI how can one get relieved from the pressure of success amongst the youths. Nowadays when you see how people are doing in finances, ministry and even in relationships they express as if you are not doing anything so how can one get help from the success of others so that you can also succeed?
*ANSWER*
Iiii many are liars. They are using borrowed cars, clothes etc pretending as if they're successful.
However, the problem isn't them but you because you're busy comparing your life with their's. Therefore, stop comparing your life with others. The success of others doesn't mean you're failing. As long as you're making a move then stay in your lane and enjoy your life.
Note: Just learn from successful people but don't make their success feel you pressured, your time shall also come
*QUESTION 18*
Sir @Sir COACH MWAYI How can a young Christian grow spiritually when they struggle with consistency?
*ANSWER*
Firstly, walk with friends that are consistent.
Secondly, never be satisfied with the level you are. Always seek for the next level in God.
Lastly, when you're feeling weak and are going down always ask the Holyspirit to strengthen you and help you to be consistent
*THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE WHO TOOK TIME TO ATTEND THIS*
