23/07/2022
STOP FORCING YOURSELF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH WHO CLEARLY DOES NOT LIKE YOU.
Life is very precious, be very careful and very precise how you live your life, stop forcing yourself to be with someone who clearly has no interest in being with you, relationship is not by force, at the end of the day you're the one that will get hurt because you have been chasing shadows.
Relationships are meant for two people who are in love with each other, two people who understand each other, two people who wants to be with each other, the both parties are responsible for the growth and development of the relationship but when the relationship becomes one sided happiness is far away from that relationship.
Stop ignoring all the wired and disturbing attitudes you see your spouse display, they are warning signals, these actions are what you need to come to a conclusion if they truly love you or not, you don't have supernatural powers, you can't tell what is in a person's mind, but you can tell if they love you by the way they treat you, if you discover through their character that they don't love you, please leave such a relationship, it usually do not end well.
Stop hoping and believing they would change, stop thinking you will change them, you're not the Holy spirit, stop looking for what does not exist in the first place, stop hoping to be loved by a person who does not have any feelings worth so ever for you, a person who is only with you because of circumstances.
A lot of people are wallowing in pains simply because they have decided not to let go of a relationship who is one sided, a relationship where every responsibilities that is supposed to be shouldered on both parties is been shouldered by one person, the responsibility becomes to much for just one person to carry hereby the person is living in pain and agony.
If you don't leave such a toxic relationship you will die young living your family, visions, career and aspirations behind because of a person who do not care about you, a person who will go on to be with someone else when you're gone.
Life is short, live it to the fullest, don't waste your precious time trying to fix a relationship that does not have love as its foundation, happiness is free but not everyone has it, don't Deny yourself your own happiness