The HEART Ministries

The HEART Ministries The H.E.A.R.T. Ministries is a Christian non-profit making organization committed to helping people

Equip Leadership Institute & Training Consultants provides consultancy services & training solutions to different organizations in the Private and Public Sectors, Faith-Based Organizations, Non-Governmental Organizations and Community-Based Organizations. It does this by engaging the large pool of qualified and experienced resource persons as consultants and other institutions including private se

ctor as associate consultants. Equip Leadership Institute & Training Consultants also partners with other Training Solutions Providers and Consultancy firms locally and internationally by jointly bidding for the assignments as a consortium. The consultancy unit has successfully undertaken a number of Consultancy projects and mounted several Short Courses/Trainings in various thematic areas, including Coaching & Mentoring, Team Building, Customer Care & Service, Private Security, Close Executive Protection, Forensic & Criminal Investigation, Leadership Skills Development, Professional Workplace Discipline, Communication Skills, Stress Management and Training of Trainers.

06/12/2025

There is a woman in the Scriptures named Leah, and the Bible says something so powerful, so piercing, that if you don’t catch this revelation you’ll walk right past your own deliverance.

“And when the Lord saw that Leah was hated, He opened her womb.” (Gen. 29:31)
Listen, the Lord saw. He didn’t guess. He didn’t assume. He saw.

In the Hebrew, the word is rā’â (רָאָה) which means to inspect, to observe with intention, to fix one’s gaze upon something deliberately. That means while everyone else was overlooking Leah, God was studying her pain.

And I need you to know this: Leah wasn’t just hated by one person. Her life was surrounded by layers of hostility. Let me walk you into what the Lord revealed to me.

Did Laban hate Leah? Some people profit from your brokenness. Laban (her father) saw Leah as something to manipulate, a piece to move on the chessboard of his greed. Could he have really loved her and manipulated a man into marrying her? Did he use her to suit his own purposes? Was that love?

Some of the hatred we've endured wasn’t personal…it was transactional. People hated the fact that they needed you, depended on you, benefitted from you… yet did so anyway, and never intended to honor you.

Did Jacob hate Leah because she didn’t fit his preference? He wanted Rachel. He dreamed of Rachel. He worked for Rachel. And when he looked at Leah, all he saw was what he didn’t choose.

Sometimes the deepest wounds come from people who can’t receive who you are, because they are obsessed with who they thought they wanted.

Jacob didn’t have the capacity to love what God had placed in front of him. And some of you have been crying over people who simply did not have the capacity to steward your anointing.

Did Rachel hate Leah because she kept producing? Rachel had beauty, but Leah had fertility. Rachel had love, but Leah had fruit.
The Hebrew word for jealousy is qin’ah (קִנְאָה), a burning, aggressive envy. Rachel contended with Leah because every time Leah cried… God opened her womb again. Every time Leah prayed… God answered again. Every time Leah was pushed aside… God gave her something she didn’t even ask for.

And hear this: Jealousy is always the reaction when God blesses the one nobody expected. But here’s the part hell hoped you wouldn’t discover.

Leah wasn’t hated because she was weak (Laban). Leah wasn’t hated because she lacked beauty (Jacob). And she surely wasn’t hated because she was second choice (Rachel). Leah was hated because she carried Judah!!
AHHHH! There it is!

And when the Hebrew says Yehudah (יְהוּדָה), it comes from yadah (יָדָה)—to praise, to confess, to declare the greatness of God.

Judah would become the tribe of kings. Judah would carry the scepter. Judah would be the line through which David would come.
Judah would be the doorway through which Jesus, the Messiah, would step into the earth.
This wasn’t family drama. This was messianic warfare. Hell hated Leah because Jesus was coming through her womb.

So let me tell you what I hear the Lord saying for you: “The hatred you faced was never about you. It was about the destiny inside you. They weren’t rejecting your personality. They were reacting to your prophecy.”

Satan hated Leah before Leah even understood her assignment. The warfare wasn’t against her face. It was against her fruit. It wasn’t against her marriage. It was against her mantle.

And the Lord says: “I saw every tear. I saw every rejection. I saw every comparison.
I saw every door slammed in your face. I saw every moment you were the afterthought, the hidden one, the overlooked one. But I opened your womb anyway.”

You may have been Leah (male or female) in their eyes… but in God’s eyes, you were the chosen portal through which praise, royalty, and redemption would flow.

So stand up in your spirit. Lift your head from that place of rejection. Because God is saying:
“You will birth what they hated you for. Your Judah is rising. Your lineage of promise cannot be stopped. And what they ignored, I have anointed.”

Listen, your story is bigger than the hatred. Your destiny is stronger than the rejection. And your womb (seat of assignment) is carrying something hell cannot abort.

Your Judah (the declarative glory of God) shall speak.

28/03/2025

Single Mothers Raise Boys, But They Never Let Them Become Men.

THEY TURN THEM TO MUMMY'S BOYS

12 Dangerous Traits of Mummy's Boys

Brutal thread:

05/12/2024

"Normalize having your first night at home on your marital bed after the wedding day"— Kogi Born Professional Lawyer Says she she warn of b@d things previously done on the hotel 🙈

What's your thought?

KogiReporta


10/11/2024

*31 GREAT WAYS TO FLIRT WITH YOUR HUSBAND* 💖💖💖

Samuel Olagbenjo

Are you looking for ways to spice up married life?

We’ve put together a list of ways that you can flirt with your husband to rekindle your love.

Women tend to flirt with their partners when dating and in a relationship, but surprisingly, they get married and forget about flirting with that man.

Flirting shouldn’t be retired once you’ve got the ring. It brings back the spark, the romance, and the excitement to your marriage and makes both of you feel wanted.

Flirting with your husband might sound like it’s an extra task. However, it is necessary to make sure that the fire in your relationship remains. Think of it as a way to romance your husband.

Flirting with your husband could be fun and romantic, and these tips will show you just how to do it.

1. Wear something he likes. Get some se-xy underwear, such as lingerie or a special bra and panties set. Buy something se-xy that he won’t be able to ignore. Wear clothes that show off your figure, like a tight t-shirt, a nightie, or a playsuit. Grab his attention by wearing a top with an eye-catching neckline or a s-exy dress. Put on his favorite perfume.

2. Going to bed na-ked is sure to flirt and catch your husband’s attention. If you don’t feel like dressing up to the nines, you don’t have to! Simply take everything off and get into bed—your husband is sure to be excited about it. This is an especially good strategy if you don’t usually sleep naked.

3. Initiate se-x somewhere besides the bedroom. The couch, the kitchen, the shower—your home has plenty of options! Instead of calling your hubby into the bedroom to get him turned on, try getting steamy somewhere else. Men feel desired when their wives initiate s*x.

4. A pillow fight is not reserved for children. And it’s a great way to make a move on your husband. Just toss him a few pillows and start swinging. A great fun-before-bed activity.

5. Praise him in front of others. Boost his ego by bragging about how great a husband he is. When you’re around family and friends, tell them all about your husband’s accomplishments and contributions to your household.

6. Make his favorite meal.
One of the ways to a man’s heart is his stomach. Flirt with your husband by cooking his favorite dish or ordering from his favorite restaurant. This will make him feel loved and cared for. When your husband gushes about a meal, make a note so you can cook it again.

7. Take interest in his hobbies. Be a part of what’s important to him. Men, love it when their wives show a genuine interest in their passions. To make your husband happy, suggest doing his favorite activity together. For example, if he loves watching football, sit down beside him and enjoy it together. If he loves to play video games, see if you can play a game with him.

8. Take your Husband Out On dates.
Plan something fun and spontaneous you two have never done before.
Take him out, surprise him with this, and when you take him out, all the bills should be on you. Don't let him pay for anything.

9. Give him a 10-second kiss when he least expects it. This surely will stir him to take the kiss further. Also, Wake him up with a kiss. So, your husband might not tell you that he wants this, but it makes him happy.

10. Touch him affectionately. Touching each other every day will deepen your connection. It’s also an easy way to show your hubby you love him. Hug him, hold his hand, kiss him, and cuddle him on the couch to be more affectionate. He’ll feel your love for him—literally.
Touch certain parts of his body for some minutes, and that may be all you need to stir him up. Try initiating small instances of physical touch throughout the day to get him thinking about you later on.

11. Send him a flirty text. A flirty message from you when he’s away will give him a blood rush. It will get your husband thinking about you when you’re apart. He might have just left the house a couple of minutes ago, just text him right away and tell him how much you miss him. He will smile most definitely and be wondering what his wife is up to.

12. Give him a thoughtful gift. Buy him something he’s been wanting or get something that reminds him of you.
Giving a gift is a tangible way of flirting.
The idea that you went out of your way to give him something special will make him feel loved and appreciated.

13. Show him affection in the public
Public displays of affection (PDA) are also important. Hold his hand when you’re out in public or give him a peck on the cheek. He’ll always know he’s your number one!

14. Spend time with him every day. Quality time together helps you have a strong relationship. By making him a priority, you’ll show him he’s important to you and make him feel loved.

15. Smack his butt – when he’s walking by, smack his butt, and move on. Turn around to see his surprised face, and wink at him playfully.

16. Bring him hot tea in bed. When he least expects this, you just surprise him with his favorite breakfast...

17. Prepare a candlelight dinner just to celebrate being married to him😊

18. Let him choose your pantie for you sometimes; this will turn him on. 💖😊

19. Dance For Your Hubby – turn on your favorite song on your phone or tablet and dance when he least expects it. Do something exciting that will make you both laugh and tease each other. 💖😊

20. Compliment him; When you notice he’s doing something well, tell him about it. Tell him how awesome he is. Remind him every day that you find him special. Tell him he’s handsome, talented, and a great partner. When you compliment him, be specific about what you love about him. Let him know when he’s looking hot. You could say:
“You’re so handsome.”
“You’re the funniest person I know.”
“I love your laugh.”
“You look so s*xy today.”
“I love how intelligent you are.”
This will boost his ego and make him want you more. Say sweet things to him. Call him sweet names. 😊💖

21. Tell him you love him every day. Remind him often that you’re just as in love now as you were the day you first said you love him.

22. Look very attractive when you are going out with him. The fact that people admire you will make them value you more.

23. Playful with him when you are out with him. You make him feel alive when he sees you in such a mood.

24. Look hot for him even if you are indoors and alone with him. Care about your appearance when you are home with him. Men are moved a lot by what they see. 💖😊

25. Surprise him with something that would thrill him; that’s the best way to flirt with him.

26. Laugh at his cheesy jokes.
Laughing with your husband is a great way to affirm him. That includes the joke you’ve heard a million times.

27. Show appreciation for what he does. Tell him his contributions to your family are valuable. Look for sweet gestures to appreciate some things he has done for you.

28 Warm up to him when you’re both together; cuddle, lie on his lap and maintain physical contact.

29. Take a shower with him too. This is romantic and leaves him with positive ‘naughty’ thoughts. 😊💖

30. After a tiring day at work, kiss him. Give him a hug, a good meal, and a good massage. This is one of the best treats you can give him. 😊💖

31. After the children start coming, still give him attention and make him feel wanted. 😊💖

Flirting with your husband shouldn’t stop on the day of your wedding, or a few years after marriage. It should be continuous and last your lifetime.

When you stop flirting with him, you take away certain things from the marriage.

*Watch Out For 31 Ways To Flirt With Your Wife*

You will not fail in marriage Jesus' name

Share this post to reach more people

© PST Samuel Olagbenjo
Instagram: samuelolagbenjo
page: MARITAL SUCCESS ACADEMY

The more women like you, the more your life is in danger. Fact. You need to be very careful when your success, your pres...
31/10/2024

The more women like you, the more your life is in danger. Fact. You need to be very careful when your success, your presence, your financial status, or even just your charisma starts to attract more women into your life. Why? Because this is where things get dangerous.

Think about it. A man who has too much attention from women is at constant risk of being distracted, manipulated, and taken down. It’s not a coincidence that powerful men often end up destroyed by scandals, broken marriages, or financial ruin the moment they let their guard down around women. Don’t get it twisted—not every woman in your life means well.

Here’s the hard truth: The more women you attract, the more you’ll be targeted by those who see you as a resource, not a human being. For every genuine woman who might respect and value you, there are ten others who just want a piece of your success. That’s the game, and you better be smart enough to play it wisely.

1. Women are Attracted to Power and Wealth

Look, it’s biology. Women are wired to be attracted to power, success, and wealth. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s human nature. But understand this—when you start to rise, so will the number of women trying to get close to you. And not for the reasons you think. They see you as a man who can provide, a man who has access to resources, and for some, that’s all you are. A stepping stone, a provider, a target.

They’ll come with smiles, sweet words, and all the charm in the world, but make no mistake, some of them don’t care about you as a person. They care about what you can give them, and when you stop giving, they’ll drain you dry. They’ll take your money, your peace, your energy, and when you’re left with nothing, they’ll move on to the next man.

2. Distraction is a Killer

When women start coming at you left and right, it’s easy to get distracted. You’re feeling good about yourself, your ego is fed, and you think you’ve got the world at your feet. But here’s where you need to be careful—distraction is the ultimate killer of dreams. You didn’t work this hard, grind this much, or sacrifice all that time just to throw it away for short-term pleasure.

Every time you chase after one of these women, you’re taking your eye off the ball. You’re losing focus, and in the business world, losing focus is a recipe for disaster. Your competition won’t wait while you’re busy entertaining women, and those women won’t care if you fall. They’ll simply move on to the next man who’s still on his game.

3. Scandals, Setups, and Manipulation

Let’s not act like the world isn’t full of traps. Powerful men attract scandals, and many of those scandals start with women. Whether it’s false accusations, leaked personal information, or even blackmail, women who want to take you down know how to play the game. One mistake, one wrong move, and they’ll have you wrapped around their finger.

You think it can’t happen to you? Look around—how many successful men have been brought down by women who pretended to care, only to turn around and destroy their reputation, career, and personal life? Don’t be naive. When you start attracting women, you start attracting potential threats to everything you’ve built.

4. The Cost of Attention

Success comes with a cost, and attention from women can be one of the most expensive prices you pay. The more women surround you, the more you’ll be tempted to spend money, time, and energy just to maintain that attention. Whether it’s fancy dinners, gifts, or trips, you’ll find yourself pouring resources into women who will never repay you with loyalty or love. They’ll take, take, take, until you’ve got nothing left.

And let’s not forget about the emotional cost. When you’re juggling multiple women, you’re not just playing with fire—you’re risking your mental peace. Drama, jealousy, manipulation, all of it comes into play when you let too many women into your life. Your focus should be on building your empire, not getting caught in emotional webs that slow you down.

5. The Ego Trap

There’s no denying it—attention from women can feel good. It feeds your ego, makes you feel invincible. But here’s where the trap is: your ego can be your biggest enemy. The moment you start believing that you’re untouchable because of how many women are interested in you, you’ve already lost the game.

An Alpha male knows his worth without needing external validation from women. He’s focused on his mission, and he doesn’t let female attention steer him off course. He knows that the more women like him, the more he needs to guard his space, his resources, and his mind.

6. Not All Women Are Bad, But Most Can Be Trouble

Let’s be clear—not all women are out to get you. There are genuine, loyal women out there who will support and love you for who you are, not for what you can give them. But here’s the catch: those women are rare. And the more success you have, the harder it becomes to find them. The majority of women who flock to you once you’ve made it aren’t in it for the long haul. They’re there for the benefits, and the moment those benefits dry up, so does their interest in you.

7. Stay Focused, Stay Safe

So what’s the solution, Men? Simple: stay focused and stay safe. Don’t let your success be the reason you get taken down by a woman who doesn’t care about you. Guard your heart, your finances, and your energy. Be smart about who you let into your life. Don’t give access to just anyone. You worked too hard to let distractions ruin everything.

When women start liking you, your life is not about becoming the “ladies’ man.” It’s about staying on your purpose, keeping your eyes on your goals, and knowing that not all attention is good attention. You’re an Alpha—act like it.

Address

336
Naro Moru
10105

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00

Telephone

+254722843849

Website

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when The HEART Ministries posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Shortcuts

Share

Category