03/06/2026
Keno and I are both deeply grateful for the incredible support we received for his father’s funeral held on May 14th.
It was a big undertaking, yet at each step along the way we felt such a generous spirit of support from the entire community. Many local priests found time despite their own busy schedules to help plan and organize each detail. There is absolutely no way we could have pulled it off without them! Other priests traveled to Oga to help perform the profoundly intricate and sacred ceremony. Dairyuji’s board members regularly held meetings to discuss seemingly mundane issues such as parking or seating that ensured the day went smoothly. Volunteers showed up to do a wide array of tasks that could have felt tiring or overwhelming, but they did them with a sense of joy.
People who couldn’t attend the funeral reached out personally or stopped by ahead of time to pay their respects, spanning a 6 week long homage to my father in law. The genuine warmth and reverence expressed by those in attendance created a sense of harmony and peace. Because of this energy, it felt like a true celebration of life.
We were also incredibly lucky to have relied solely on all local businesses for the many services we required. I had a one of a kind kimono made with the Dairyuji emblem hand embroidered by a nearby Kimino shop. We also used various restaurants for bentos and catering. Not to mention the stunning flowers were all provided by local florists! We also used Oga based companies to provide the ‘okaeshi’ which is the Japanese custom of offering a return gift. To honor my father in law’s love of wine, .naturelab curated a stunning selection of French red wines! To everyone’s delight we also sourced .to.agave craft sake, as well as Oga furikake (flavored seaweed and seafood seasoning for rice). This is just a short list, but each offered the absolute best quality of products.
Now that some time has passed, Keno and I keep remarking to one another how blessed we feel to have received this amazing support from so many people. It has helped ease the transition and allowed us to fully honor his father. 💕
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Keno Miura