04/12/2020
How have working mums adjusted during the pandemic? Here’s what Dinelle Lobo, Co-ordinator, Take Charge, from Mount Carmel's Parish, Bandra (W), has to say about her experience:
“Sometimes, single parenting, even for a few months, is challenging! My husband left for work early this year, wishing him safe travels took on a whole new meaning. With the pandemic and travel restrictions, you never know when you will see your loved ones again. But, one of the things I learnt is that your family will always be there for you. My mum is above 75-years, yet she moved in so that she could help us out. It’s important to be kind to mums! Especially, stay at home mums, and those who work, they have a lot of responsibilities.
These months have been difficult, not being able to meet friends, for kids as well as adults. I genuinely feel distressed for school children. I can see my son struggling. He's so used to being at school, with his friends, studying, running and playing. The pandemic has only increased screen time, with all classes and sports activities moving online. They miss playing in the sunlight, and running in an open ground is only a dream. I wish children can enjoy their freedom again.
On the work-front, relationship with colleagues has become better! Everyone is a bit more understanding and that lightens the workload. And for all of us who wait to meet our siblings, friends and relatives, this year has shown us new ways to cherish them. Earlier this year a close friend moved to a new country, and we would connect every Saturday morning! It helped us to stay in touch and not feel lost.
I missed going for Mass! It’s great that we have so many Masses online, and the Cardinal has brought the teachings of the Catholic faith into our homes. Living through these seven months, one can only thank God for, keeping us and our families safe.
Although there is a constant fear of being infected, one of the nicer things about the lockdown was learning new skills and languages, cooking, baking, and taking up short term courses. I’ve learnt to appreciate life!
I only hope and pray that 2021 will be nothing short of a miracle, we need it!”