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20/06/2018

15/04/2018

*Excellent article by. Dr.Alok Kar*

*WAKE UP PARENTS*

Years back, *poor illiterate parents* produced
🔹Doctors,
🔹Engineers,
🔹 Scientists,
🔹 Accountants,
🔹 Lawyers,
🔹 Architects,
🔹 Professors.., whom I will refer to as *Group 'A'*.

These *Group 'A'* Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them
👉🏾trekked to school *barefooted*
👉🏾went to farms
👉🏾fetched water and firewood
👉🏾cared for domesticated animals
👉🏾did some work including trading after school to survive.

Now Group 'A' ,who have now become Parents themselves are *producing Group 'B' Children*
These group B children are
🔹pampered
🔹 helped in their homeworks or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
🔹chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
🔹they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
🔹they don't do any household chores.
🔹Food is put on the table for them,
🔹their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
🔹They are given expensive cars and clothes,
🔹not forgetting *big pocket money to be wasted* !!!.
🔹Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
� In spite of all these, only few can *speak* or *write* correctly. 😏

�Group 'A' Parents cared for their own *parents* and *children*, Group 'B',their Children are still *struggling to find their feet at age 30+*.‼
�They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD

😴 *Where do you belong*❓
🏮Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children *grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
🏮Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow to become *independent adults.* Teach them to
👉🏾fear God,
👉🏾respect others and
👉🏾develop confidence in themselves.
�Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, *useful* and not *useless.*

28/03/2018

OUR CHILDREN ARE SEXY!


Parent competition on making children go astray.

Few weeks ago, I was at the local airport and as I waited in the departure lounge, I noticed there were many children roaming about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday.

One other thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc.
The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time I noticed it.

A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids.
Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dress code.

I noticed my son glancing around, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that.

Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the hit songs of the season - these songs in my opinion should be rated PG 16. 4 - 6 year olds trooped to the dance floor, miming the s*xually explicit songs and gyrating their bodies in the most sensual manner.

They could have given Beyonce a run for her money. They ran their hands over their bodies, shook their booties hard while their parents cheered them on. The boys had their upper shirts unbuttoned and rapped along perfectly to gangsta raps while doing flawless break dance.

Those who danced like actual children where shooed off the dance floor while the lewd ones were cheered on.

As I watched, my child stared out of this circle looking longingly at the others dancing. I knew it was time to leave.

As we left, we went to an eatery where I bought them ice cream and gently explained to them the concept of decency and dancing with decorum.

Another time, at a game arcade for kids, I ran
into a lady who had made-up her kids' faces like they were mannequins for Tara or Mac beauty products. Their skirts were so tight, that running up and down the slide was uncomfortable for them.

So the question is, why are we s*xualizing our kids? Why does your 4, 6 or 9 year old girl have to look like a chick?

Why does she have to be hot or s*xy?

Should your 8 year old son go around with a comb in his hair and his pants sagged almost to his ankles?

If your child wears bum shorts out of the house at age 3, why should she be expected to wear longer ones at 15?

If she wears 2 rings and 12 bangles at 6, why won't she pierce a second ear hole at 17 and her bellybutton at 19?

Why won't your son pierce his own ear at 15?

Are you setting your children up to be immodest and indecent? What trend are you starting them on? That all these are fashionable or trendy doesn't mean it's ok.

What happened to children wearing dresses.
Children can look very nice and decent, they can be well covered and still look good.

In this age, when children are being abused. Is it wise to make your child an object of anyone's s*xual attention?

When I hear some children belt out s*xually explicit lyrics, I ask myself how they became exposed to this songs!
As a parent, you can't play the CD of such songs and not expect your children to pick them up; the same goes for watching Mtv Base, Channel O, etc with your children.

Studies have shown that children exposed to a high level of s*xually explicit information tend to become s*xually active early. Is that your goal as a parent?

Being a parent involves sacrifice. You will need to avoid listening to such music where your children are. Most of those lyrics demean women and teach your daughter that she's just a s*x toy and her body is for squeezing.

It teaches the boys that money is everything and women are things to be used to satisfy their primal urges. These music introduces them to a degrading pop culture.

Our children have their lives ahead of them, let's set them on the right path by teaching them to dress decently and sing nice or age-appropriate songs.

Let your children be children. Train up a child in the way that they should go and when they are old, they would not depart from it.!

28/03/2018

*Summer Vacations around the corner.*

Parents are busy searching for suitable camp for the kids.

Almost 2 months break.
Art, theatre, Football, basketball, robotics, dance, nature walk, cooking, painting, poured with options...

Dear parents, kindly include the following also in the list:

1. *Let kids learn to wash their plates.*

A 12 yr girl last time shocked me when I asked her to put the plate in the sink by saying _'oh sorry aunt. I did not know this is my duty. My house, either maid or ma takes it..'_

2. Every morning, make kids learn to fold their bedsheets and and arrange their pillows and beds.

3. During this 2 months period, let kids learn to eat what is cooked at home instead of what she likes to eat.

4. Let kids gather their friends & go for evening walks, introduce themselves to neighbors.

5. Let kids make lemonade along with their friends after their outdoor play.

6. Let kids share toys.
_My daughter has 2 cousins at hometown. When she is going to visit them, she is taking only one set of toys, not 3 sets._ This time she learns how to share.

7. Instead of going to big cinema halls, gather lil' friends, make a screen in the terrace , hire a projector and watch movie. We did this last time. Awesome experience.

8. Let kids stay with grand parents, uncles and aunts without parents for atleast a week.

Kids are ready to explore!! _Only parents' fear block them._ Without showing them options parents decide kids can't or don't stay without them.

9. Let kids make a dollhouse out of cardboard .

10. Kids can make kitchen utensils out of real clay.
_You never believe the creativity of the kids when you leave them to do by their own._

11. If they get sick, let them heal without any medicine.
_Can't we wait parents? It's only vacation. Atleast now we can let their immunity work._

12. Let them wake up without alarm, let them go bed after a tiring play.

*Parents who ever have the options please leave the kids at grand parents place.* They will take better care than us.

There is definitely life beyond maths, language , science, art, craft, robotics, handwriting, Olympiads etc..

Waking them up again in the morning, getting them dressed for some classes, making them sit and do activities again... please remember *NOT ALL CLASSROOMS HAVE 4 WALLS.*

Summer vacation is not only for kids, it's for parents who can take time to recharge themselves for the next academic year, take care of their health and mind.

And for grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins who are eagerly waiting for these kids to come...😊

17/03/2018

जीवन मे दुःखो के लिए कौन जिम्मेदार है ?

👉🏻ना भगवान,
👉🏻ना गृह-नक्षत्र,
👉🏻ना भाग्य,
👉🏻ना रिश्तेदार,
👉🏻ना पडोसी,
👉🏻ना सरकार,

जिम्मेदार आप स्वयं है

1) आपका सरदर्द, फालतू विचार का परिणाम

2) पेट दर्द, गलत खाने का परिणाम

3) आपका कर्ज, जरूरत से ज्यादा खर्चे का परिणाम

4) आपका दुर्बल /मोटा /बीमार शरीर, गलत जीवन शैली का परिणाम

5) आपके कोर्ट केस, आप के अहंकार का परिणाम

6) आपके फालतू विवाद, ज्यादा व् व्यर्थ बोलने का परिणाम

उपरोक्त कारणों के अलावा सैकड़ों कारण है जिनके कारण हम जीवन मे तकलीफ उठाते रहते है और बेवजह दोषारोपण दूसरों पर करते रहते है,

परमहंस श्री योगा नन्द जी ने अपनी पुस्तक योगी कथामृत मे एक जगह लिखा है,

मेरा अस्वस्थ होना किसी प्राकृतिक नियम की अवहेलना मात्र है,

इसमें ईश्वर दोषी नहीं है

अगर हम इन कष्टों के कारणों पर बारिकी से विचार करें तो पाएंगे की कहीं न कहीं हमारी मूर्खताएं ही इनके पीछे है

● प्रकृति का नियम, कर्म का प्रतिकर्म, एक्शन का रिएक्शन, याद रखे दिमाक 95% व्यर्थ की बातें सोचता है, जो किसी काम की नहीं होती, सिर्फ भय उत्पन्न करती है
सलाह, शांत चित्त हो कर,
बुद्धि,विवेक से निर्णय लें,
परिणाम अच्छा ही होगा !!

"ALL IZZ WELL"

12/03/2018

Cataract operation is free for 1 month TILL 31st MARCH......