14/03/2026
The Road to Equality Begins with Small Steps
“The road is long. Patriarchy is stubborn. But with each conversation, each negotiation, each baby step, we see families becoming more equal and more humane. And that is how change will endure.
We must be honest: patriarchy is deeply entrenched. Older generations, especially men, often resist change because they fear losing power. Sometimes crises—like lack of toilets or severe family conflicts—force shifts. But otherwise, change is slow. Women often understand the harm of patriarchy but cannot act; instead, they make space for the next generation.
We realized we had to work with youth. While the current generation needs immediate support when violence occurs, the next generation must be prepared not to tolerate violence at all.”
— V. Kalyani
Chairperson, Action India
In a new article on Reimagining the Family, Ms. Kalyani reflects on the deeply entrenched nature of patriarchy and the gradual process through which families and communities work toward more just and equal relationships.
The piece highlights how honest conversations, small negotiations, and the engagement of youth can play a crucial role in transforming patterns that sustain inequality and violence within families.
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