06/09/2026
LOVE: A Debt We Must Pay
Romans 13:8-10
One thing I believe that everyone dislikes is owing a debt. Twenty-five years ago, I had a car payment plan with the bank, and the day I made my last payment, it felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. The Word of God also supports the act of paying off our debts, with one exception: “Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law” (Romans 13:8).
This Scripture verse commands us to become indebted by owing love to everyone. This is difficult for me with individuals that hurt me. You too may find yourself in this same place of the "hard-to-give" love to certain individuals. But all is not lost if you are having difficulty in paying this debt of love. This is a good place to start a payment plan. Growth is possible when we acknowledge our flaws and struggles and seek help from the Lord. We can do all things through Christ who will give us the strength (Philippians 4:13).
The Scripture says: “Love does no harm to a neighbour. Therefore, love is the fulfilment of the law." (Romans 13:10). Love is a choice, and it can be a very difficult choice to exercise. The Lord knows it is difficult to show love to those who harmed, abused, and misused us. Yet, he commands us to pay that debt and to stay indebted to others for the payment of Love. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrong. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. LOVE NEVER FAILS (1 Corinthians 13:4-8a). These attributes of love are no "walk-in-the park” actions. Yet with the Holy Spirit's help, we can succeed.
The first step is to tell the Lord where we're having difficulty in paying a love debt. Second, ask the Lord to help you in exercising the attributes of love. The Scripture says love never fails. That means we must believe it regardless of how we feel towards a “hard-to-love” person and apply the word of God to our attitudes and actions towards them. Paying the love debt doesn't mean we will feel good about the person in the beginning, but that's not the focus. The objective is that we are making daily payments of love. My bitterness towards another can prevent me from expressing kindness to them, but Love is Kind. My anger towards another can prevent me from honouring them, but Love Does Not Dishonour. Someone actions may get you angry, but Love is Not Easily Angered. And here's another difficult one: Love Keeps No Records of Wrong.
Start with just one of the Love virtues. Do not let your feelings dictate your response. Let's practice at least one of the love attributes towards another even when our feelings are screaming Nooooooo! In your free time, think of unique ways to express love's attributes. Perform one act of kindness for that person. As author John Maxwell said in “Winning With People, "find the 1% good in the person, and give it 100% of yourself.
R.G. 04/09/26
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