28/05/2026
In the busyness of work, ministry, and life don’t forget to go home and bless your own family.
Christians are blessed by God to be a blessing to others. Leaving a trail of blessings (not destruction) wherever our feet touch the ground. But if we arrive home more often than not with nothing left in the tank to bless our own families, then we need to make changes, and quickly. Whether you’re a mother, father, son, daughter, brother or sister - you are to be a blessing to your own family.
This week’s weather has been unusually spectacular. On one of the days when I had a lot on my plate my kids asked me would I do a BBQ that evening and play with them. I thought to myself - I really don’t have the time for this today but then a verse that blessed me from the Bible that morning triggered a different response. I chose to be a blessing to my family that evening and the kids smiles and laughter proved it was the right call!
God will always be first in my life but family is something which God has entrusted to every parent and what we do in the family home can be some of the most amazing and impactful ministry we will ever do. Yet, we have to bless from a place of blessing, the source of blessing - Jesus!
There is a verse in 1 Chronicles 16 that I think most people miss. David is busy getting everything ready and organised for the ark of the covenant. Then in v43 we read this - “David turned and went home to bless his own family”.
It doesn’t say he begrudgingly turned and went home or when he was completely exhausted he decided to go home and complain about his day, shouting and moaning throughout the house. No, David chose to go home from a place of blessing (God’s presence) in order to be a blessing to those closest to him, a family entrusted to him by God.
Church doesn’t interfere with family. It’s a place where blessings are imparted into our lives and overflow out to everyone around us, including our families.
If we are blessing everyone else but not our families then we have got it wrong!
Are you leaving a trail of blessings or destruction in your home?
Are you blessing from a place of blessing?
Do you know the source of true blessings?