16/04/2022
Our Ultimate Purpose
I have to be completely honest. Women’s faith journey sent out a sign up sheet of dates and themes for volume 2 of our blogs in January. Each month had a different theme, February - love, March - compassion and April - Purpose. I signed up for April because ever since graduating college in May 2021, my purpose in life has been something I have been struggling a lot with. Trying to figure out my new identity post graduation, living back at home, as a young adult, in the work force has been more than tough and I would be lying if I said I had it all figured out. I picked this topic letting my pride and ego tell me that come April I would have my plans, purpose and identity all figured out and I would be able to map it out for other young woman in a well constructed blog… but let me tell you, BOY I was WRONG. Here we are come April, and I am sitting down rewriting my article about 500x because I am still just as confused about how to find the perfect job that is always going to make you happy, I am just as lost in the amount of alone time I have been given, and I definitely do not have this young adult thing figured out…needless to say, I am pretty sure nothing prepares you for post college/young adult life. But at the beginning of lent I sent out on a journey, a journey to remind myself that this life isn’t all about myself, its not about what makes me perfect, its not about my wants and it’s surely not about my purpose. It’s all about God’s. If we do not root our identity and purpose in our all powering, all knowing, all giving father than we will never truly discover our purpose. In order for myself to discover my true purpose, I had to discover a deeper relationship with Christ. Lent is a time where we are called to reflect and restore on three main areas: prayer, almsgiving and fasting. Jesus Christ encourages us to dive into deeper conversation with Him, opening up our hearts to invite Him in and heal our wounds. He shows us how he selflessly gave Himself as a servant to all and calls us to do the very same thing. Then He asks us to get rid of the things in our life that are distracting our gaze from Him - to get rid of social media, to get rid of overeating, to get rid of worrying about our purpose and surrender it ALL to him. To cry out to him and say, “O Jesus I surrender myself to you, take care of everything.”
Our ultimate purpose in life is so much more than making sure we get the perfect job, have the best social life, the biggest house, the fastest car, you fill in the blank______. Our ultimate purpose is to become the godly women who God intended us to be, to surrender our lives to Christ, to invite Him in, to love Him and to love others. So that one day when we are standing at the gates of Heaven, God will be standing there saying “with you my daughter, I am well pleased.”
As we are getting closer to Good Friday, I can’t help to remember the greatest sacrifice of all time. Christ dying on the cross, purchasing His death on the cross - for us. Christ was mocked, ridiculed, beaten, bruised, and condemned to death so that He could endure God’s wrath for our sin. He died the worst death for OUR sin. Let that sink in. Our loving father, loves us so much that He gave his one in only son to die for us so that we would not perish but have eternal life.
So as we continue in life on this side of heaven I urge you to think about what you are putting your purpose and identity in. I think we ought to start realizing that the purpose Christ intended for our lives was to live godly lives, where we love God, sacrifice our wellbeing for our neighbors, repent on our wrongdoings and seek Christ above all things.