14/06/2022
It's very common to hear most people saying that the reason for marriage is for procreation and companionship. This two minors in the University of Marriage then require the very relevant majors that without having, sailing through this school could become very tumultuous, if not impossible.
The majors include trust, honesty, faithfulness, forgiveness, love, understanding, commitment, mutual respect, accountability, communication, hard work, availability, affection, romance, good s*x, good money management, good hygiene, attractiveness, home management, and many more.
These may not be available where a spouse feels too important and looks down on his or her partner.
So to achieve success:
Strive at cultivating and maintaining friendship.
Support your spouse to look like what you're tempted to like outside, in terms of packaging.
Make it a habit to have date night at least once every week, no matter how low budget it is. Boredom kills. If your home is the only place for expressing love and giving attention, then you're destroying your marriage.
Create healthy boundaries to wade off family and friends that Satan wants to use to scatter your marriage.
Project your spouse and don't keep secrets or make him or her compete for your attention and love.
Speak respectfully to your partner and be romantic.
Play and pray together.
Forgive each other easily.
Be intentional at making your marriage beautiful by exchange love messages.
Let nothing make you look down on your s*x life nor deny your spouse good s*x. It's the bond that cements the marriage union. Don't cheat on your spouse no matter what rather seek professional help to deal with any difficulty you may presently be facing.
The above and many more positive actions will enhance your major and minor courses in the University of Marriage you've been enrolled into.
So, be determined and committed to make your marriage attractive.
Shalom!
©️MAMA CATHY
RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE COACH
FAMILY LIFE CONSULTANT