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Institute of Marriage Bureau and Guidance, P. O. BOX 116, Accra (2026)

14/10/2023

Why Married Women Experience Painful S*x ?

S*xual Intimacy is meant to be an enjoyable experience that draws you and your partner closer together. But when s*x becomes painful you may find yourself doing anything and everything just to avoid it.
S*xual ignorance has been one of the most important barriers to s*xual fulfillment. If you are not well informed about the nature of s*xual functioning, it can interfere with your s*x life in a number of ways
You may miss many of the pleasure of s*x because you are unaware of them, or do not consider that they are normal and healthy.
You may do things that interfere with your s*xual response. For example, certain parts of the cl****is are so sensitive that they can be painful if stimulated directly.
Ignorance of this fact may make efforts at s*xual stimulation a cause of exquisite pain.

Causes Of Painful S*x

1. If a woman is not aroused meaning if her va**na inside is not wet enough for pe*******on. It is very possible that a p***s may not go in smoothly, and if pe*******on is forced, she could be hurt or bleed or cause tearing
2. Another possibility is that certain mediation could be making your va**na a little dehydrated and you may not even realize it. Many low dose birth control pills cause va**na dryness and others.
3. Va**na dryness happens when the tissues on your va**na are dry, thin and not well moistured and this leads to discomfort, especially during s*x.
Is a painful symptom that many women may experience at some point during their lives, and may affect a person's quality of life.

Solutions To Address Painful S*x

The important thing to focus on here is that this isa solvable situation. As long as you follow this advice, then you are not doomed to a s*xless lifestyle even if your partner's p***s seems to be big or large.
# To fix this problem then engage in serious foreplay to make your partner's va**na wet in order to enable smooth pe*******on.
# Use lubricant to prepare the va**na to make it wet to enable easy and smooth pe*******on.
Water - soluble lubricant are a good choice if you experience va**na irritation or sensitivity. Silicone - base lubricants last longer in the va**na and tend to be more slippery when apply in the va**na than water soluble lubricants.
# Do not use petroleum jelly, base oil, or mineral oil with condoms. This can dissolve the latex and cause the condom to break.
# Talk to your partner during s*x; tell your partner where and when you feel pain as well as what activities you find pleasurable.
# Make time for s*x.

30/09/2023

Use These Questions To Resolve Your Marriage Conflict ?

How do you expect your future marriage be ?

Do you plan of fighting with your partner when marry, Or you plan to live at peace with him ?

If you have not plan of fighting with your partner then why are you now fighting with him/her.

Who is the cause of the problem ?

Have you ever sat down to ask yourself who is the cause of the problem?

After identifying the problem.

If it happens that you are the cause the problem then are you ready to resolve it with your partner.

Are you ready to apologize to your partner if the problem is coming from your end

If your partner is the cause of the problem then how do you resolve this with your partner.

Every problem can be resolved through communication.

Communication is a key to problem solving, so make it a point to communicate to each other in order to resolve all problems.

How will you partner know that you have a problem when you don't communicate that problem to him/her.

Have you taken a side in the marriage.

If you have taken a side in the marriage then how can the problem be resolved.

30/05/2023

Avoid Divorce Because Leads To Adultery.

Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Luke 16:18

Divorces And Marries Again While The First Partner Lives Commit Adultery.

For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2-3

Leads To Adultery Because You Can't Remain Unmarried After Divorce.

And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Romans 7:2-3

You Can't Remain Unmarried After Divorce Because The Devil Will Tempt You To Commit Adultery.

Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1 Corinthians 7:2-5

28/05/2023

S*x Before Marriage Is Very Deceptive, Avoid It Because It Can Lead You To Marry The Wrong Partner.

Many people have regretted of marrying because they have not taken their time to study the character of their partners before jumping into the marriage.
Many were deceived that partners who can satisfy them s*xually well are the kind of partners they needed to marry but have forgotten that s*xual satisfaction does not promote a good character.
A good character does not depend on s*xual satisfaction, so having s*x with partner doesn't mean he/she is a material for marriage.
Premarital s*x can deceive you to marry the wrong person because it doesn't make a person to pay attention to the inner character of the person whom you may want to marry.
S*x before marriage is very deceptive because it pushes you to surrender to the person whom you are having an affair with and without you paying attention to things that promote the joy in marriage.
If you are in a premarital s*x with you partner then note that there is a danger ahead of you because you may lack the capacity to know whom your partner is in order to make the right choice.

07/02/2023

A Husband Must Not Divorce His Wife And A Wife Who Divorces Must Remain Unmarried Or Reconciled To The Partner.

And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Matthew 19:4-6

Divorces And Marries Again While The First Partner Still Lives Committed Adultery.

Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Luke 16:18
For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2-3

Husband Or Wife Is Free To Marry Again When One Partner Dies.

And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2-3

29/01/2023

You Cannot Divorce Your Husband/Wife Even If He/She Cheated On You.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4

Cannot Divorce Your Partner Because From The Beginning It Was Not So.

He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Matthew 19:8
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Matthew 19:4-6

In Marriage Is A Sin Of Adultery And It Must Be Forgiven.

For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Matthew 6:14-15

Commits The Sin Of Adultery Will Suffer The Consequences.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4
For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Romans 6:23

Divorces Must Remains Unmarried Or Reconciled To The Partner

And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11

Divorces And Marries Again Commits Adultery And He Who Marries The Divorced Commits Adultery.

Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Luke 16:18
For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2-3

12/01/2023

If You Don't Understand Your Wives As Weaker Vessels Then You May Not Understand Their Characters.

Most men mistakenly taken education as a reformative tool for women's character transformation. But the truth of the matter is that no matter the educational level of a woman she still remain as a weaker vessel because education does not transform the weakness in women.
Women sometimes behave strangely toward their husbands because they are weaker by nature.
Men who don't understand the dynamic of women as weaker vessel don't enjoy peace with their partners because they have forgotten that weaker things can't exhibit perfection.
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. 1 Peter 3:7

You Understand Your Wives As Weaker Vessels Then You Can't Fight Them In Anywhere.

It takes a precaution to handle a weaker vessel, same is women also, if you follow the godly way of handling your wives and accept them as weaker vessels that needed to be protected then you will always live in peace with them.
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church. Ephesians 5:28-29

Who Don't Understand Their Partners As Weaker Vessels Don't Enjoy Their Marriages

Husbands who don't understand their wives as weaker vessels don't live in peace with them because their wives can't meet their expectations.
Meanwhile women as weaker as they are can't exhibit perfection, so husbands who expect them to exhibit perfection can't experience it because weaker things don't do so.
And husbands who don't understand the strengths and weaknesses of their wives always fight and quarrel with them. Such husbands never enjoyed peace in their home.

30/12/2022

Don't Let Your Marriage Blues Push You Into Sadness And Depression.

Marriage blues are expectations or things that push one's marriage into sadness and depression.
These usually occurred when unfulfilled expectations entangled partners with sadness and depression. Every marriage has its own blues depending on the event and time it ushers in. And these blues have powers to upset our sense of well being. Our tendency, when things bother us and situation for getting it gone wrong it thus cause pains and discomfort in the couples.

Marriage Has Its Own Blues Depending On The Event And Time it Ushers In

There is no doubt that people and situations can be the cause of many marriage blues. If someone swings a lawn tennis bat into my knee, the pain I feel is directly caused by that action. If a partner speaks unkindly to me, I feel hurt, a direct result of his choice of words.

That We Live In The World Of Uncertainty, That Not All The Time That Our Desires Or Expectations Will Be Met.

We live in the world of uncertainty, that sometimes you may desire for something but the result may not be met due to failures and unavailability of resources. These unfulfilled desires are mostly met with pains and sadness. I may be expecting white clothes and shoes from my partner after l have delivered but if this expectation is not met as a result of thinking that my partner is being irresponsible towards me then sadness and pains would be my portion. You may see other couples ushering new gifts to their partners in this upcoming new year but for my side nothing was given to me. Being with my partner I see everything to be turning upside down. This result has cause a lot pains due to unfulfilled expectations.

You Don't Manage Your Marriage Expectations Well Then Your Sense Of Well Can Be Affected Negatively.

However, marriage blues as we can best experience, if not manage well would cause a lot of problems that can affect our sense of well being and people around us. Blues in marriage have pushed a lot of couples into a thinking pool where many of us are gradually reducing in size.
It can also affect your sense of well being in behaving in an abnormal way because of excessive thinking. Many couples who experience marriage blues are always in isolated box because they suspect everybody around them as the cause of their suffering or predicament. You would be full of hatred and this sometimes endangers our own lives and also the lives of others around you. It makes one to become a wounded lion because of pains and sadness.

Allowed These Blues Or Expectations To Frustrate You Into Unnecessary Suffering.

Never allowed these blues to frustrate and push you into unnecessary suffering and thinking. It can make you unstable.
Remember, everything that has a cause has a solution. That said, there is nothing wrong with trying to change a situation that we don’t like or that makes us unhappy. Such efforts are wise and adaptive and a way of taking agency in our lives. We need to try to change what’s not working, if we can. But this is not a post about how to more skillfully change those around us so that they can better fit into how we want them to be. This is about what happens when we are not successful at changing those around us, and cannot change the situation that is causing us pain.

Overcome These Blues Then Identify The Cause Of The Problems And Look For Best Solution To Address It.

To overcome these blues don't look for a solution that would cause more pains, but rather look for a solution that would address the problem without feeling pains and being depressed.
Always try to identify the cause of the problem with a reason that you can best look for a solution that would best address it. There is a saying that two better heads are better than one, associate with people who would help you address the problem, never tried to solve it alone.
Don't be too wise in your thinking, if not you may be making a mistake that would cause more pains than gain.
Never lose hope when things are getting tough, remember every problem has a solution.

This is my new year gift to all married couples and yet be married partners.

May you see the progress of your marriage in the years ahead in Jesus Christ Name.
Afehyia pa

01/12/2022

Moses Because Of The Hardness Of Your Heart Permitted You To Divorce Your Wives But It Was Not So From The Beginning.

Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.
"Haven’t you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator ’made them male and female,’
and said, ’For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ?
So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Matthew 19:8, 4-6

Wife Must Not Separate From Her Husband. But If She Does, She Must Remain Unmarried Or Be Reconciled To Her Husband. And A Husband Must Not Divorce His Wife.

To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.
But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.
So then, if she has s*xual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man. Romans 7:2-3

Husband Must Not Divorce His Wife And A Wife Must Not Divorce Her Husband Because Every Sin Must Be Forgiven.

For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:14-15

Divorces And Marries Again Commits Adultery. And Whoever Marries The Divorced Commits Adultery.

Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. Luke 16:18

30/11/2022

Your Reason Of Marrying Will Either Keep You In Marriage Or Push You Out Of Marriage.

Many people are out of their marriages all because before they even tie the knot they had plans not to remain forever in their marriages.
So with any slightest thing then they base it on and divorce their partners.
And with such people there is no amicably solutions or settlement in their chapters. They see quiting their marriages as an achievement.
And since they have made up their minds to quit no amount of counseling can convince yhem to stay or to change their minds.
But those who had a reason of staying in they marriages no matter the circumstances they will still stay. They don't believe quiting their marriages is the best solution rather they believed that every problem has a solution, so they would rather stay to look for solutions to address their problem than quiting for the problems to still remain.

25/11/2022

You Must Not Divorce But Whoever Divorces Must Remain Unmarried.

To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.
But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
1 Corinthians 7:11-11
Haven’t you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator ’made them male and female,’ and said, ’For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ?
So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Matthew 19:4-6
For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.
So then, if she has s*xual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man. Romans 7:2-3

Divorces And Marries Again Commits Adultery.

Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. Luke 16:18
For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him.
So then, if she has s*xual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man. Romans 7:2-3

Commits Adultery Defile The Marriage Bed.

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the s*xually immoral. Hebrews 13:4

Adulterer Or Adulteress Can't Inherit The Kingdom Of God.

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the s*xually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have s*x with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10

You can't divorce and marry again and still claimed to be a Christian because whoever divorces and marries again commits Adultery.

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08/11/2022

No Marriage Can Stand The Test Of Time When It Is Built On The Ground Of Selfishness

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the Philippians 2:3-4

In Marriage Doesn't Make Couples To See Themselves As One.

Haven’t you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator ’made them male and female,’ and said, ’For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ?
So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." Matthew 19:4-5

Selfish In Marriage Is Very Dangerous Because It Does Not Promote The Principle Of Two Is Better Than One.

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?
Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

In Marriage Makes Couples To Think That Their Partners Don't Have Authority Over Their Bodies.

The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.
Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5

For you to enjoy your marriage then avoid taking side in the marriage, and determine always to have the interest of your partner in order to build a successful marriage.

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