23/11/2019
Excerpt From: Dag Heward-Mills.
“All About Fornication .”
Parchment House Publishers, iBooks.
EARLY MARRIAGE
I encourage people to marry young. The more Christians delay the marriage ceremony, the more likely they are to end up living in sin. What are you waiting for? In certain churches there are road blocks to marriage. Couples are presented with so many obstacles to delay marriage. But that should not be the case.
" Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy YOUTH. "
Proverbs 5:18
The Scripture encourages you to have a wife when you are young the wife of your youth. Do not use the lack of money as an excuse, because you can marry if you really want to. Marry whilst you are still young. Do not wait until you have all the comfortable things in life before venturing into marriage.
When I decided to get married, somebody whispered to my wife to marry someone who had everything in life. I certainly did not qualify because I had nothing!
I have been through some really hard times with my wife, when we did not have any money. We had to warn our visitors to sit in a particular way because our chairs were weak and broken. She even had to go abroad to work to buy us some furniture. I have truly struggled with my wife, so I love her. I did not have to wait until I was an old man to get married.
I love the people with whom I have been through struggles and difficulties. They are different from those who have come in a time of total blessing. When you are already established in life, you will have people interested in you because you are already blessed.
But the wife of your youth will marry you not because of what you have, but because of who you are. It is a blessing to marry young.