Cafe Church Argyle Square

27/05/2026

Join us this coming Sunday for discussion on the topic "Hope".
The Cafe Church is a safe place where all points of view are respected.
Possible questions for discussion - Where can we find hope? How does hope or the lack of it affect you and those you care about?
All are welcome.
Refreshments are provided.

06/05/2026

A Café Church gathering was held on Sunday, 26/04/2026, with the central theme focusing on forgiveness, particularly self-forgiveness. The discussion was lively, centred around the empowering nature of forgiveness and the challenges faced when forgiving oneself. Many participants noted that forgiving oneself can be harder than forgiving others, as lingering guilt can impede personal peace and freedom from resentment. It was discussed that failing to forgive oneself often leads to repeatedly seeking God's forgiveness and that feelings of secret shame can strain one's relationship with God, creating a sense of separation.
Some attendees expressed that self-forgiveness is sometimes made difficult by those whom we have wronged, yet remembering that God loves and forgives us is crucial. The concept of being saved by grace was highlighted as something that can make self-forgiveness easier. The group encouraged making amends where necessary, suggesting that forgiving oneself can lead to improved relationships with others and greater empathy, especially through prayer.
Christian testimonies regarding self-forgiveness were shared, with some participants feeling that it is easier to forgive others than oneself, even though accepting forgiveness from God might come more readily. There was discussion about secret shame and the fear that God's forgiveness might have limits, but recognising the need for self-forgiveness was seen as valuable. Jesus was presented as the ultimate model of self-forgiveness, having broken social and religious barriers to administer mercy and grace throughout his life.
The group concluded that forgiveness should be a lifelong practice, offering more grace both to others and to oneself. They believed that asking God for forgiveness is essential, acknowledging human flaws. Secret shame was identified as a barrier to knowing God intimately, highlighting the challenge of self-forgiveness. The participants agreed that if one cannot forgive oneself, it becomes difficult to extend forgiveness to others. The church family was acknowledged as a supportive environment, continually pointing to the cross and Jesus as the model for self-forgiveness and a way to face reality with grace and mercy.

28/03/2026

Cafe Church meets tomorrow 29th March at 6.30 pm. Join us for an hour of discussion and praise over refreshments. Our topic this month ‘New Beginnings.’

16/02/2026

Cafe Church meets again at 6.30 pm on Sunday 22nd February 2026. Join us to discuss the theme 'Love' over home baking and tea.
All are welcome to this safe environment where diverse opinions are shared.

27/01/2026

After a rousing bagpipe introduction and delicious Burns Night tea we settled down to discuss the impact of celebrity and hypocrisy.

Introduction

On the evening of 25th January 2026, members of the Café Church gathered to commemorate Burns Night, the annual celebration of the life and works of Robert Burns. The occasion offered a thoughtful forum for discussion, inviting attendees to reflect on the central theme: “Robert Burns – National Treasure or National Disgrace?” The conversation revolved around questions of morality, judgment, and the appropriate way to view the lives and actions of prominent figures. Participants focused on three key points: what we expect from famous people, the societal impact of celebrating talented individuals often labelled as ‘sinners’, and whether it is right for us to judge others.

Robert Burns: National Treasure or Disgrace?

Robert Burns, Scotland’s celebrated poet, remains both admired and controversial. Famous for his stirring poetry and enduring influence on culture, Burns was equally known for his unconventional lifestyle and forthright opinions.
Expectations of Famous People

The group turned to society’s expectations of celebrities and public figures. Participants observed that, while famous people like Burns are often held to higher standards, their faults are sometimes accepted or celebrated. The discussion considered the temptations that come with fame, and to what extent society has grown desensitised to the misbehaviour of celebrities. It was noted that public tolerance for 'bad behaviour' might come from recognising our own weaknesses, but can also reflect an unhealthy fascination with scandal.

Celebrating ‘Sinners’: Societal Impact

Attendees debated the effect of celebrating the works and talents of those labelled ‘sinners’. Many questioned the appropriateness of such labels, expressing discomfort with defining individuals in such absolute terms.

Judgment and Morality

The issue of whether it is right to judge others was central to the evening. There was wide agreement that judgment is not ours to deliver; instead, the focus should be on self-reflection and personal growth. Leading by example and considering one’s own actions were emphasised over condemning others. The idea that “every saint has a past and every sinner has a future” struck a chord, highlighting the possibility of redemption and change.

Media and Celebrity Culture

The discussion also examined the role of the media in shaping public perceptions of celebrities. Attendees noted how the media can exaggerate flaws and controversies while overlooking positive qualities, and discussed the responsibility of public figures in managing their own image. The conversation highlighted how media narratives influence societal attitudes about morality and judgment.

Conclusion

The Burns Night gathering at the Café Church provided a meaningful exploration of fame, morality, and judgment.. The group’s consensus was clear: it is not our place to judge others, but rather to look inward. In a world shaped by media and celebrity, self-reflection and acceptance remain essential. Burns’ enduring legacy continues to inspire reflection on the true nature of morality and the value of embracing our shared humanity.

The next Cafe Church will be on the 22nd February 2026. All are welcome to join us in fellowship and discussion along with delicious refreshments.

26/01/2026

Burn's Night - and the man himself inspired our questions last night.
Report to follow.
The young man pictured below provided an appropriate start to our meeting.
Thank you.

26/11/2025

And here are the mice at Cafe Church….

24/11/2025

T’was the month before Christmas
And all over the house
Not a living thing was moving
Not even a mouse

Because the mice were all having cakes
At Cafe Church, Argyle Square, Wick

09/11/2025

Here's a report of the last Cafe Church. Interesting discussions with a friendly group over a cuppa.
The next on is the last Sunday in November, the 30th at 6.30pm for an hour. The last one this year. Do come a join us and check out this page for information about the topic or even better follow us for updates.

21/10/2025