22/09/2023
It's been a year since I had to call the police to get my ex out of my house, she has told many lies about me since and, because I don't talk about it, many people have made assumptions about me, when it wasn't their business to know.
I am writing this for myself more than anyone else, I have had many nasty lies told about me recently and many people that I regarded as friends turn away when they now see me, if you hear one side of a story and believe it as gospel, you are a fool.
On September 10th at around 1am I called the police - Police ref DCP-20221017-0568 - to have my ex partner removed from the house as, and not for the first time, I was the victim of domestic violence. This time, whilst drunk, she repeatedly hit me, screamed obscenities and flashed a razorblade at my face. I had had enough. She then called my mum and screamed obscenities at her, a 70 yr old woman that she has never met.. the policewoman on the phone recorded the whole event, which I have access to. As the police arrived she ran off and got in her father's car and left.
A week later, she illegally entered my house and assaulted me again, this time in front of a witness and then left. The police were once again called.
Police ref DCP-20221030-0571
A few days later I arrived home in the evening after coffee and with a friend to find an ambulance crew on a ladder at my first floor bedroom attempting to smash my window to gain access as the police had been called to say I was in my house heavily drunk and slashing my wrists with a razor blade Ref: 18132205 27/09/2022. It transpired that she had called my boss and told him I was doing this and he then phoned the police. The ambulance service have put in a complaint to the police for wasting emergency services time.
She then started sending me letters, to start with saying that she is worried about me and sorry it didn't work out. Then they got darker, or**es at my house with both men and women, s*x with my 72yr old friend, all sorts of wild and erroneous accusations. The Police have copies of the letters.
She called my family and friends and exes in Bristol and London, and made up all sorts of stories, so that in the end I had many people worried about me.
The worst thing she said was that I pretended I could have children just to be in a relationship with her but was infact sterile..
I have a low s***m count
I was offered ivf treatment with my ex wife in 2014 at Care Fertility Bath, they have a very high success rate and would not offer treatment to someone with no chance of conceiving as their rate would drop. My ex partner on the other hand was turned down a few years ago as she was told she was not viable for treatment. We had this discussion when we first got together and she was happy to continue.. whereas now she is pretending that I have no chance and never told her, just to make out that I am an evil deceiver, when infact she is just so self admiring that the idea someone would want to leave her, along with her disgusting actions, drew her into a litany of lies.
I have not gone to anyone to spread bad word about her and do not name her here.
This, considering her actions and the amount of evidence I now have is to become a civil matter.
For those that don't believe me, under the freedom of informations act you can request all information and voice records from the police using the crime numbers above at police 101 online.
