05/06/2026
It’s been a tough week.
The events of Tuesday evening were unsettling, horrible, and at times, scary for us in the community: Trying to get home safely amidst noise, smoke and chanting; feeling scared & unsettled in our own homes; hearing the drone of the helicopter as we try to sleep; needing to explain to the kids why there are bricks and broken glass strewn across the pavement; seeing our streets portrayed on national news as places of aggression and anger.
It’s not okay.
Amidst all of that, there has also been goodness, kindness, compassion, restraint and resilience in our community this week: the student who began clearing up the broken glass at 7am in the morning; parents drawing words and insights from the depth of their being to try to make sense of what was happening to their kids; the staff of St Denys school welcoming all with a reassuring smile; residents out with brooms and bags to clear the debris; the tone of restraint and sadness on St Denys Rocks on Tuesday evening that aimed to keep things calm and not stir things up; the generous offerings of practical help to aid the restoration of walls and fences; the ongoing sadness at the loss and tragedy at the heart of all this.
A journalist asked me if this had brought the community together. I said ‘no, because we are already together.’ The two phrases I repeated on Wednesday morning to various media outlets was ‘This is not who we are.’ And ‘we need to remove hatred from the streets.’
I don’t have solutions or answers to the multiple layers of issues that underly Tuesday evenings event. It feels that anger, shock & disillusionment, amongst other things, have been harnessed by hatred. We have felt the result of that close to home this week. It’s not okay.
But I am choosing to believe that there is a different way. That there can be enough wisdom, listening, courage, strength, compassion and creativity in people and in communities to walk a different route. I am choosing to believe that something else instead of hatred can hold the sense of anger, shock and disillusionment, and find a way forwards. And the word I am choosing for that is Love: Down-to-earth & practical, wise and thoughtful, brave and courageous, collaborative and far-reaching Love. And that is the path I choose to walk today.
It’s been a tough week, but I’ve been reminded that St Denys rocks!