13/10/2026
Trusting in God will make you weak. But is that as bad as it sounds? He wants your heart, soul, and strength. Giving that over to someone means being vulnerable. Giving someone all your love means that in that position, you are weak, but only depending on what they do with that. Anyone who has been in love can tell you that it can be terrifying, but it can also be exhilarating, because loving someone also means trusting them. Too often, people will give God the love they are willing to give at that point whilst not giving themselves fully, but this is not the love and attention He wants. John Kavanaugh, philosopher and ethicist, met Mother Teresa in 1975 while volunteering in her house of the dying in Calcutta, and asked her to pray for him. When she asked what he wanted her to pray for him he said “Clarity”. She refused. He asked why and she replied “Clarity is the last thing you are clinging to and must let go of.” Loving God is letting go of trying to decide for yourself what’s best, letting go of the control you so desperately desire, letting go of trying to be the centre of your own story, and letting God continue writing His story through you. When Kavanaugh noted that she always seemed to have the certainty and clarity he was hoping for, she laughed and replied “I have never had clarity; what I have always had is trust. So I will pray that you trust God.” What is it that you are still clinging to? (taken from "Maybe you’re not meant to be strong", © 2026 Bradley Leighton, Substack, Sep 9)