02/06/2026
💞MARRIAGE 💑
A CONTRACT AND ITS RULES ⁉️
📌If marriage is a contract,
Here's what it should contain.📌
🛑INTRODUCTION: The family home has its rules and principles, and when they are violated, its long-term survival is practically impossible. These principles and this family code are instituted by God himself and must be respected to ensure the continuity of the home.
🛑THE 5 MAIN RULES OF MARRIAGE:
RULE #1: In a home, the husband is the head and the wife his assistant. When the roles are reversed, chaos and trouble ensue.
RULE #2: Within the home, the man is the visionary and the woman, the manager. A woman is not inferior to a man simply because he is a visionary, but she must accept the order established by God, because every well-organized structure requires a visionary and a manager; a structure cannot function with two visionaries.
RULE #3: Within the home, God gives the man the vision, and the woman the talent and ability to realize it. Both must work in harmony and collaboration, without competition, for the good of the family.
RULE #4: Within the home, the husband has an obligation to love his wife, and the wife has an obligation to submit to him. The wife does not submit because her husband shows her great love, but out of obedience to God's commandment. And this submission is proof of her love for her husband.
RULE #5: The Word of God requires fidelity to commitments and to the sexual life of both spouses. Extramarital sexual relations are strictly forbidden under all circumstances.
🛑CONCLUSION:
Biblically, God has already addressed the issue of family structure to prevent confrontations, conflicts, and confusion regarding power and authority within the family. A family cannot have two visions, two visionaries, or two leaders; this would lead to clashes, and such a structure could not last.
Therefore, a woman, regardless of her degrees, intellectual level, beauty, or genius, if she marries a man, according to Scripture, is obligated to submit to him, accept his authority, be guided, follow his vision, and make it her priority.
Outside of marriage, a woman can be an important figure in society and have her own vision, but if she marries, she is obligated to submit, along with her vision, to that of her husband in order to avoid any conflict or misunderstanding within the home. And a man who lacks the vision and leadership qualities necessary to guide his wife and home is not a man. She's a woman in disguise.
If her rules or principles aren't followed, regardless of the level of love you each feel, frustration will eventually set in, ultimately leading to divorce.
✍️Prophet Firmament
Freedom House Church, Manchester