09/01/2025
Advice please post on your wall.
Some parts of this is sensitive in a way, my husband has been taking screen shots he finds of females from his FB, females that are in risky outfits like bras and cheeky underwear and less then that. I'm small in hight and size like size x-small and 0, the pictures I found where females with thick thighs hips top and bottom, he knows I have been trying my best to gain weight for myself NOT for him, but when I confronted him about it he says who cares I'm with you and/or oh so your going threw my phone now.
I already found 4 months before ### pictures of his ex wife and many other females before me in his phone. He claimed he deleted them but he didn't some he saved in the private album and some he did delete. Do I have the right to feel hurt and betrayed? I have lost trust in his words and actions to the point I'm thinking of randomly having a girl that best fits the pictures he saves come to our house when he is home and hand him her and walk away.
Is it impossible for a man to be loyal and trustworthy and not be sneaky? I also found out recently that a week before we got married he was on a dating app and showed his ex wife profiles on girls bragging about how they look. If I knew this before we married I would have NEVER married him. I'm also stuck, I have no friends or family to help me get away from him, saving up money is hard when he ran up my credit cards.
Trying to pay them off I can't save while doing that. I need some real advise please