15/09/2026
On this day, 15 September, died Mary Ann Thurston (1810-1896), a beloved nanny to Queen Victoria and Prince Albert’s nine children, including the future King Edward VII.
When she was appointed in spring 1845, the Queen noted:
“Mrs Thurston is a widow of about 32, very nice & respectable looking, & she bears an excellent character, so that I hope she will be a success.”
She certainly was and remained in the royal nursery for the next twenty years.
In 1865, when Mrs Thurston, no longer needed as a nanny, took up a new position, the Queen found it surprisingly difficult to say goodbye:
"Soon after I came home saw good Thurston, who is to become Housekeeper at Windsor. We shall see a great deal of her, but she has been 20 years with our children & the thought of the dear old Nursery being broken up, is dreadful to me now! I could not have parted completely from such a good, faithful, devoted servant. Gave her a bracelet containing the coloured photos of the 6 younger Children, as she saw the 5 youngest born & took charge of Affie, when he was about 9 months old. She is so bound up with the recollections of the happy past, & one feels as if one could never sufficiently repay the services of such an excellent person."
Mrs Thurston died at Kensington Palace. She was buried in Square 157 at Kensal Green Cemetery on 18 September 1896. Princess Louise attended the funeral, while Queen Victoria and the Prince of Wales sent wreaths bearing affectionate inscriptions.
Her monument, erected in February 1898, carries a touching dedication:
“In grateful and loving memory of Mary Ann Thurston by V.R.I. and her children Victoria, Albert, Edward, Alfred, Helena, Louise, Arthur, Beatrice.”
Two names are missing – Alice and Leopold – as they were both already dead by the time this memorial was commissioned.
Mrs Thurston’s monument, now Grade II listed, is a unique example of a funerary sculpture created by a member of the Royal Family: its circular relief was carved by HRH Princess Louise herself.