10/12/2023
"Young women must expect their husbands to cheat when they get married."
This was said by someone who doesn't understand God's design for marriage. God did not design marriage for cheating but for true companionship, godly offspring and truth. When cheating sets in, true companionship and truth are destroyed.
Some claimed that men are designed to cheat in marriage. This is against God's design. God did not create marriage for contention, where two or three persons are laying claim to one person and marital bliss becomes bruises. He created it for a true and solid union, which occurs only between a man and a woman and not between a man and three women. It is apparent that there can be no true companionship where a man is married to a woman but has three or four concubines. Many of the kings of Israel went against God's plan because of the numerous wives they had. These wives were constantly influencing these kings for their own gains, since everyone of them wanted to have their share of the kings' bounties, having observed that the kings really did not belong to any of them. Had these kings had one wife each, they would have been truly guided by their wives, since these wives knew that all these kings' possessions belonged to them, and no one wants their possession to be destroyed.
Men ought to learn all that God has taught mankind about marriage and abide by them. They would keep them from harm and damaged future. It is true that society has its own design for marriage but it is wisdom for all men to refrain from it, even though it seems to favour their excesses because it is extremely destructive.
For young women, do not settle for a marriage which already has traces of philandering in it. You would never be healed of its thorns. Once a young man you're dating is securing his phone from you, for instance, please leave such a relationship. You said, "Shouldn't we talk about it first? Why must I just leave him?" I believe, through the Scriptures, that God will ne
