06/10/2026
This Week's Reflection from our minister Rev Stephanie Njeru
“Above all, maintain constant love for one another, for love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaining. Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received.” (1 Peter 4: 8-10)
October is now upon us, and there are two things that are worth highlighting. Firstly, is that October is Black History Month and 10th October is Mental Health awareness.
In recent weeks, we have, once again, seen protests against people who seek sanctuary on our shores. This is not a new concept. Those who came over in the Windrush era, although willing and able to work and help rebuild Britain, many were ostracised and rejected from wider society. The same goes on here and in other places around the world, South Africa are currently going through what can only be called as ethnic cleansing, giving an ultimatum to all those foreign nationals who have worked and lived there for years.
Many discussions I have with my husband end up with me being educated about the colonisation of Kenya. History I was unaware of in my school education. There is a museum been opened in Kenya to remember the colonisation and everything that happened. My in-laws refuse to let me visit because they know I will never be able to un-see what pictures and stories are held within that collective memory.
There is so much we still have to learn, and so much we need to learn from in order that we can strive for all to be treated as human beings and not objects. Lived realities are not the same for us all, and awareness of that is essential.
I was watching a programme a few weeks ago where Professor Peter Fonagy had done research with young people and their mental health. The reporter had asked the question – are young people ‘snowflakes’? And the response was ‘no’, reasoning that lack of guaranteed employment, housing insecurity, social media bullying and fewer safe social groups for a greater sense of belonging and positive encouragement. This should give us food for thought. What is it we can, both personally and as a community offer to young people to help them feel like they belong? How can we recognise the insecurity of their future and help them feel grounded or worthy? Some young people battle with things that didn’t even exist when we were growing up, it is a new and complicated world.
Different worlds, different realities. We may not necessarily understand everything, but it is our responsibility to do everything we can do, to make sure life for everyone is as good as it can be. Start small and watch the ripples turn into positive self-esteem, better mental health, and a knowledge that they are loved. ‘We love because God first loved us’ (1 John 4:19).
To enable people to see beauty in diversity, we must make provision for learning and generosity. To enable others to flourish, we must show them not just humanity, but the spirit of the God of love.
May God bless you with love and generosity of spirit, that all may feel love, accepted and enabled to be who they were created to be.
Rev Stephanie