17/05/2021
“Memories are the Treasury and Guardians of All Things” (Cicero 106BC - 43BC)
The Royal British legion was founded 100 years ago yesterday, receiving its royal charter in 1971. Founded to support members of all branches of the UK and Commonwealth forces, it continues to be supported by over 177000 people.
On 6 December 2021, the Republic of Ireland will ‘celebrate’ the signing of the first Anglo-Irish Treaty leading eventually to the creating of the Irish Republic.
The centenary of any event provides memories, memories that have a power to make present again events and experiences that can create great joy and equally great sorrow. Memory has a power to unite the deceased with the bereaved as if they have never been separated, as if they are, once again, united in real time. Memory can, likewise, arouse and make lived again, suffering and injustice from a past one might wish to forget. Yet such memories provide a validation for the victim’s pain which time can so easily render intrusive while supporting a continued quest for a justice that risks being denied by being delayed.
Memory will not succumb to suppression without inflicting violence on the one who remembers. Indeed, it is surely memory that fuels the present violence in the land of the three faiths of Abraham. Here Jew, Christian and Moslem have failed to sufficiently acknowledge their common origin. And is it not memory that drives the Palestinians’ continued quest for justice and for the right to life and liberty. Memory, too, keeps alive the intercultural divisions (because they really do not have anything to do with religion) that emerge in violence from time to time in Northern Ireland, especially for those who cannot accept the 1921 treaty or the people who signed it, the result of the treaty signed 100 years ago still affording ‘reasons’ for violence.
More immediately – and perhaps seemingly (only) of less importance – will be our memories of how we lived pre-Covid. Whenever we reach a time when Covid 19 becomes but a memory, we must surely not hanker after the ‘way things were’. This will be to fuel division and to support a ‘them and us’ culture. We may not be at ‘war’, yet there may be sentiments in our hearts that impact negatively on the unity that Jesus prayed for, a unity of mind, body and spirit underpinning the unity of communities and people.
There is a continued violence (quiet and silent) being inflicted within our ‘civilised’ cultures that belies the fact that life is short, to be treasured day by day, and to be lived to the fullest possible, underpinned by the motto of the British Legion: “Service Not Self”. From womb to tomb this violence is perpetrated, each act creating memories that impede the unified world that Jesus prayed for. There is a sustained and yet unspoken denial of the value of another’s human life - the unborn, the ‘disabled’, the elderly, those who differ in colour, code, creed, gender - all of which is compounded by a refusal to accept our common humanity, storing up memories as fuel for continued pain filled memories, and consequent divided and broken individuals, families and communities.
Jesus prayed that we might be one. This unity cannot be achieved while unhealed memories are treasured. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget (or, perhaps, do not want to forget) creates a new and life enhancing way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. This healing, whether in this life or delayed until a future world of perfect love, is the gift of God’s Holy Spirit alone. Here, in 2021, lies the importance of the Feast of Pentecost to be celebrated next Sunday.
Do you have memories that cry out to God’s Holy Spirit for healing?
Fr Teddy O'Brien - MSC