06/12/2024
A letter to my brothers and sisters, sons and daughters.
Dear...
MARRY YOUR TYPE
In a world characterized by inherent cruelty, finding and marrying one's 'type' - a romantic partner who embodies a consistent set of physical, personality, and behavioral traits that an individual is repeatedly drawn to - can serve as a crucial coping mechanism and source of comfort, providing a sense of security, validation, and belonging.
I know you might be under pressure. Your peers have their own families now and you're at the verge of marrying whoever is available but listen to me, MARRY YOUR TYPE. The Bible clearly says, Don't be unequally yoked with unbeliever (2Cor 6:14). Do you know that we have unbelievers in church today. Don't be deceived by one's coming to church. Some are finding a place to get settled now.
Don't get to know this when you're already in the boat, find out now. You don't want the hustle to force someone to pray, fast or be zealous for God just as you are. I trust that you aren't the one pretending to be someone you're not. Otherwise be honest with yourself and get your type and free that bro or sis of mine.
Some where encouraged to get church brothers but deep down they knew they are wild n church guys ain't for them. They went after their heart n they are happy. Evaluate the advises n make your own wise decision. But u mst know, DARKNESS HAS NO PARTNERSHIP WITH LIGHT.
You don't need One that you hope to change, when you're in marriage. You can inspire someone but it's their decision to make a change or not. If he/she possess a willing spirit to learn then don't disqualify her, she is a work in progress. Some are looking for finished products, they aren't willing to grow together. You must know them otherwise you'll be the husband or wife on paper yet his happiness is coming from outside.
Don't Ignore The Red F**s, l beg don't. You are a sheep in the midst of wolves, so Be Wise as Serpant and Innocent as Dove (Mathew 10:16).
Marriage is a beautiful thing if you find your type. Trust me this thing can be sweet. On the other side of coin, it can be a thorn in your flesh, a lifetime regret. Get in love with Your Eyes open and Your Mind Wide Open. I love you.
With all this, Let's Pray.
To God Be The Glory.
Pstr Charles.