02/09/2026
Lay Readers from across the Scottish Episcopal Church gathered at Glenalmond College in Perthshire for a conference on the theme "From Stranger to Friend," helping us think how we can move those who come through our doors from feeling ‘outsiders’ writes Alan Baker, Warden of Lay Readers in the Diocese of Edinburgh.
Our guest speaker, the Revd Dr Canon Sandra Millar from the Diocese of Gloucester in the Church of England, guided us through this with useful insights and good humour. We also enjoyed fellowship and worship in the environment of Glenalmond College.
Dr Millar encouraged us to make the most of all our points of contact and the activities taking place in our buildings, making sure that we have up-to-date notices, web pages and social-media saying what we offer. We should not write off those who (now) come to church once a year to special services like Christmas and Easter
Research has shown that people want church to be traditional, friendly, relaxed, and significant. We are creating a space for people to be able to be what God created them to be. People may feel judged and anxious, with low expectations. Even if they don’t want to have a conversation, offer a smile at least, be positive and encourage them to return. Some may prefer to be ‘on the edge’ for a time, but research says 9/10 would like to hear from us again – keeping in ongoing contact is important.
There was useful advice on how to reduce anxiety, engage and involve new people, with sensitivity to differences between individuals. We considered the balance in worship between accessibility and wonder. A workshop focused on putting ourselves in the shoes of those who come to our services or activities; another on communion using reserved sacrament.