04/09/2026
Freyja had a husband. Most people have never heard of him.
His name was Óðr, and they had a daughter called Hnoss. Then Óðr went away on long journeys.
Where did he go? Why did he leave? Did he ever return?
The surviving stories don’t tell us.
What they do tell us is that Freyja went looking for him.
The Prose Edda says she travelled among unfamiliar peoples searching for Óðr. On her travels she was known by several names, including Mardöll, Hörn, Gefn and Sýr.
She also wept for him, and her tears were said to be red gold. That image found its way into Norse poetry, where gold could be called Freyja’s tears.
It’s a side of Freyja we don’t hear much about. Not the necklace, the magic or her share of the slain. Just somebody searching for a person who vanished, travelling through unknown places and never being given an ending.
There is another mystery here too. The names Óðr and Óðinn are closely related, and both figures are wanderers. Some scholars have wondered whether Óðr was once connected with Odin, perhaps even another form of him.
But that remains a theory. The surviving sources treat them as separate figures and never tell us they are the same. So we are left with the journey, the different names and the gold she cried.
Whatever the complete story of Freyja and Óðr once was, most of it has been lost.
Rather fittingly, Óðr is still missing.
Sources
Prose Edda, Gylfaginning
Prose Edda, Skáldskaparmál -kennings for Freyja and gold