12/09/2024
I’ve found that many who reject Christianity, are not rejecting Jesus, they are rejecting a form of Christianity which is nothing like that which Jesus initiated.
This is a really interesting article and worth a read and ponder- How to Respond to a Culture You Don’t Like Anymore
By Carey Nieuwhof
Ever feel like culture is changing so much that you really don’t like it anymore?
You’re not alone.
The culture around us is changing.
You can debate when the collapse of Christendom in the West began, but there is little doubt we are witnessing a massive shift away from the cultural consensus that existed even a few generations ago.
So, as a church leader – as views on work, politics, s*xuality, family, parenting, drugs, finance, and other values change – how do you respond? What do you do when the world for which you trained (maybe even the world where your approach was once effective) is disappearing before your eyes?
What’s the key to responding when the world around you no longer…
… shares your value system?
… pays much attention to you?
… thinks you add anything to the cultural mix?
I see at least five approaches churches are using, some that are helpful and some that aren’t. So, here they are.
3 Ineffective Approaches Churches Are Currently Using
1. Be Oblivious To Culture
Some churches appear to be oblivious to culture.
If you walk into a church like this, you won’t be able to tell whether it’s 2024, 2011, or 1981.
The sermons are theoretical and not at all practical, nor do they engage the realities of the world people inevitably will walk back into Monday morning.
The music is remarkably stale and sounds like nothing you’d hear anywhere else. No one looks like they would be comfortable visiting a trendy local restaurant. It’s the same old, same old, and this church seems old.
What happens if you’re oblivious to the culture around you? If you’re indifferent to the culture, it should be no surprise that the culture is indifferent to you.
This approach produces irrelevance.
2. Hide From Culture
Unlike churches that are indifferent to the culture, churches that hide from the culture are aware of what’s going on around them. But they’re scared. Really scared.
So they hide.
You’ll hear Christians in this camp vow to never do anything ‘secular.’ Sometimes Christians set up their own networks as a safe cocoon from others.
They live on GodTube and Faithbook, or increasingly alt-right sites. They have ‘Christian’ or ideological alternatives to everything you can think of.
This approach stifles the mission of the church.
Effectively, it’s a retreat and runs counter to the church’s mission to advance, and, as a result, many in this camp don’t actually know any non-Christians.
You can’t reach the world you don’t know, understand or love.
3. Slam Culture
This has become a very popular approach, perhaps peaking in the last few years with the crazy political narrative that’s emerged in the United States.
I continue to be baffled as to why Christians insist non-Christians adopt our moral views. Why on earth would Christians expect non-Christians to act like Christians when…they’re not Christians?
If you want to be ineffective at reaching unchurched people, keep judging them.
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Having a government that doesn’t embrace the church’s values line for line puts Christians in some great company—the company of the earliest followers of Jesus.
Jesus spent zero time asking the government to change during his ministry. In fact, people asked him to become the government, and he replied that his Kingdom is not of this world.
The Apostle Paul appeared before government officials regularly. Not once did he ask them to change the laws of the land.
He did, however, invite government officials to have Jesus personally change them.
Paul constantly suffered at the hands of the authorities, ultimately dying under their power, but like Jesus, he didn’t look to them for change.
Rather than asking the government to release him from prison, Paul wrote letters from prison talking about the love of Jesus Christ.
Instead of looking to the government for help, Paul and Jesus looked to God.
None of us in the West are suffering nearly as radically as Jesus and Paul suffered at the hands of a government.
In fact, in Canada and the United States, our government protects our freedom to assemble and even disagree with others. Plus, it gives us tax breaks for donations.
We honestly don’t have it that hard.
Maybe the future North American church will be more like the early church, rising early, before dawn, to pray, to encourage, to break bread.
Maybe we will pool our possessions and see the image of God in women and love our wives radically with a protective love that will shock the culture. Maybe we will treat others with self-giving love and even offer our lives in place of theirs.
Maybe we’ll be willing to lose our jobs, our homes, our families, and even our lives because we follow Jesus.
That might just touch off a revolution like it did two millennia ago.
Perhaps the government might even take notice, amazed by the love that radical Jesus followers display.
I hope so.
2 Approaches to Reach People in Today’s Culture
1. Embrace People And Offer An Alternative
Of all the approaches I’ve noticed, this is the most encouraging in my view. And it’s the one I also try to follow.
There’s much about today’s culture we may not like, but that’s no excuse to stop loving the people within it.
In an age when so many churches push away people they don’t agree with, the field is ripe for Christians willing to embrace their neighbors.
To actually love them. Kind of like Jesus told us to.
Does that mean we have to agree with everything they do? Of course not.
But (…think about this…) the church is uniquely positioned to offer a radically beautiful alternative to the culture in so many key issues, like our s*xuality, how we handle our money, what we do with our bodies, and in basic disciplines like confession and self-control.
When culture truly becomes post-Christian (as it has in Canada, where I live), it’s often not that people are rejecting Christian teachings, it’s that they don’t even know what those teachings are. And they’re surprisingly open to Christianity if the Christians they meet are loving and generous people.
Many are open to a new way to live. Here are just a few alternatives core to Christianity providing an intriguing counter-cultural viewpoint:
In an age where s*x is anything you want it to be, Christianity teaches that s*x is sacred and that we value the who far more than the what, which changes the what and the how.
In a culture where greed and debt have become the norm, Christ-followers can model and teach generosity and life that isn’t measured by what we accumulate.
Teaching young families to save and give is truly countercultural these days and deeply biblical.
In an era when the family is morphing and even fragmenting before our eyes, Christians can offer support and mentor kids and teens and extend friendship and tangible support to parents and adults who are alone.
Do you see the pattern? There are so many other areas where we can embrace people who are different than we are and humbly come alongside to help.
2. Focus On Core Mission
For decades now, many churches have been struggling.
Liberal and conservative churches that were transfixed on politics and ideas (more than the core message of Christianity) were often struggling to reach new people.
Even attractional churches, which made up the majority of growing churches in the last two decades, were finding growth much harder than it used to be.
If there’s one trend to watch moving forward, it’s that America’s journey into a post-modern, post-Christian culture is continuing unabated.
This means the future church will have to stand as an alternative to the culture, not an echo of it.
As a result, in the future church:
Cool won’t cut it
Hype won’t cut it
Fun won’t cut it
Real will.
A focus on the core purpose of church — introducing people to a relationship with Christ, with each other, and life-changing discipleship — will be the one thing that church can offer that the world doesn’t.
Churches that focus on this will grow. Churches that get lost in politics, ideology, hype, or anything off-mission will not. At least not in the long term.
The culture needs an alternative to itself, not an echo of itself.
