05/09/2026
If you can understand that it’s meaningless and unwise to suffer with suffering, which is a common way (what is common or putagjano, and that’s also an ignoble way or anariyo), as suffering is a part of life anyway, that can help you let go of suffering to enhance the quality of mind and quality of life.
In other words, if you realise that it is the meaninglessness to suffer with suffering events and life experiences based on wisdom or “nissarana”, you may train to let go of delusions about self-view, social practices (including rituals and mere precepts, or acts), while letting go of delusion for the world as it arises from sensory information.
People are born into places; most thoughts are automatic. Are you willing to train the automatic thinking process (and conscious thoughts) that functions in common or “putaggjano” mode to let go of such mode by applying wisdom to enhance the quality of mind and quality of life? If the answer is yes, you may try to train your mind in the universal noble path to let go of suffering with stability.
To develop the noble path, one has to ask questions and investigate oneself; one may question oneself, as one is the best to understand and guide oneself toward the cessation of suffering.
You may hear and apply the universal training from someone who has walked and completed the stages of nibbana, or from a qualified person, and test the practice to assess its reliability after applying it wholeheartedly.
To discover truths in you, you may question yourself;
Since ups and downs are a natural part of everyone's life, when life's difficulties arise, instead of becoming overly sad, ask yourself, "Why am I becoming sad?" When you reflect on this, you may find two viable answers: you feel sad because you have an underlying expectation that certain things should not happen the way they happen, or because you have strong likes or dislikes regarding certain experiences. Once you find these answers, take a further step to question yourself: "What made me think that sad things shouldn't happen, but in reality, anything can happen in life?" The answer lies in a misguided understanding of life, which leads a person to expect things to unfold exactly as they wish. When distressing events happen, instead of becoming overly distressed, focus on resolving what can be resolved and put more energy into that, rather than consuming energy worrying over such things. In this way, you can lead yourself to discovery by asking yourself questions, reflecting on yourself, and sharpening your wisdom through self-questioning.
First thing first, you have to be honest with yourself. For example, you may try to answer the following sample questions to let go of delusion by applying wisdom:
1. Do I truly value freedom from suffering through the greatest source of energy or universal wisdom (Buddhahood), leading to experience emptiness or nibbana or freedom from suffering, or do I value the world through its sensory information, social practices?
2. Can my mind become free from social constructions, or is it such that my mind can't help but get stuck and restricted by constructions?
3. Is it such that my mind values the world based on sensory information, with an underlying tendency to think such things are ultimate truths?
You may investigate your mind and understand when it has delusion. And let go of delusion by applying wisdom to become free from suffering arising from the mind’s construction and the world you experience through sensory information.
If you let go of delusion through conscious efforts, your mind's suffering decreases. To make it stable, you may engage in letting go of mental fetters through conscious effort while connecting with the emptiness in the mental continuum of those who represent the Triple Gem within. To do that, you may let go of the delusion of the common way of understanding your self to understand the universally applicable Triple Gem. This can be explained as follows;
One of the barriers to developing the noble path is a lack of self-awareness. Sometimes, when it comes to practising Dhamma, certain individuals can get carried away even without them knowing, so they may act, all dressed up and displaying themselves, talking about self (personal stories etc.) and showing to others (i.e intent) that I am a seeker of universal truths or nibbana or "I am a disciple of the Buddha or Dhamma or "I am a follower of Buddha and Dhamma", without necessarily letting go of delusion for the conventional self and other fetters within. Yet when the universe invites you to end the dressing-up events and show at the deathbed, all dresses have to be set aside, but the mental continuum goes on, transitioning in ordinary mode. Thus, you may investigate, understand, and guide your mind to let go of wanting to show off the “self” through Dhamma instead; focus on Dhamma, investigate and talk about universally applicable Dhamma matters without bringing the self into it, as discussed in the previous post.
“...When kusa grass is wrongly grasped, it only cuts the hand. So too, the spiritual practice in life, when wrongly taken, drags you to hell.
Any lax intentional act, any observance done with unwholesome intent (or intent grasping self-view and other fetters), or suspicious spiritual life, is not very fruitful.”
That’s what the godling Tāyana said... “
-Tāyanasutta, Sn 2.8
https://youtu.be/xf5xKpIG2XI
https://youtu.be/DY3ugOAP2Hk
Homage to the supremely enlightened Buddha🙏🙏🙏