04/06/2026
3/3 Following Jesus in real life.
One of the boldest statements in the New Testament is Paul's invitation to ‘Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.’ (1 Corinthians 11:1). At first glance it sounds astonishing, yet Paul wasn't claiming to be flawless. He’s the same apostle who admitted his struggles, spoke about his weaknesses, and described the ongoing battle within his own heart. Paul understood something important - that people learn best through example. The Christian life is not simply taught, it’s caught, and that's why dedication services are so significant.
A dedication is not primarily about guaranteeing a child's future faith, but about adults making a commitment to model faith in front of them. In effect, they are saying: ‘We will show you what following Jesus looks like, not perfectly, but honestly.’ Children don't need superheroes. They need examples of people who love Jesus enough to keep following Him through success and failure alike.
The same principle applies far beyond parenting. As Christians we are all influencing someone: children, grandchildren, colleagues, friends, neighbours…People are watching, learning what faith looks like from the way we handle disappointment, conflict, suffering, success, temptation, and uncertainty. The question isn't whether we're being watched, but what people see in us. Do they see people who rely on themselves, or people who rely on Christ? Do they see pride, or humility? Do they see someone who pretends to be strong, or someone who knows where true strength is found?
The wonderful truth is that Jesus never asks us to model perfection, but to follow Him, and as we do, others are invited to come with us. That’s the heart of discipleship, not ‘look how impressive I am’, but ‘look how faithful Jesus is.’ Remember, someone may be learning about Christ from your life. Not from your achievements, and not from your image, but from your willingness to keep returning to Jesus, again, and again, and again. And perhaps that's the most powerful witness of all.
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