27/05/2026
Tales from the churchyard
We cleared an area in the south east corner of the graveyard to find the headstone of Sarah Coupland.
Sarah Coupland was born in Mareham le Fen in 1860 and her family roots are tied to Mareham Le Fen through many generations dating back to the early 18th century. Her father Edward was born in Mareham in 1815 and like his father, John Coupland, before him he was an agricultural labourer. In 1841 aged 26 he married Eleanor Coupland (related?) whose father was also called John. By 1851 Eleanor had given birth to 3 sons, John, Charles and William and a daughter Mary was born in 1857.
There is no 1861 census record for Edward and his family however by 1871, Edward is living alone on Watery Lane, Eleanor is working as a live in Charwoman for a Widow on the High Street, Sarah, aged 12, is staying with Thomas Marshall and his family in Horncastle, where Thomas is the Inn Keeper of the Greyhound Inn.
Sarah died in March 1875 aged 15 years. She was a member of St Helens Church choir and her headstone states that it was given as a token of love by the church choir.
In 1881 Edward, aged 66, is living with his wife on Watery Lane and employed as a Wood Labourer. He died aged 74 and was buried in the village cemetery on 19 Sep 1889.
In 1901 Eleanor, aged 86, was a self employed Market Gardner and employed her daughter Mary. She died in 1907 and was buried in the village cemetery on 1 Jun 1907.
By 1861 John, aged 18, is living and working on a farm as a Carter in Tumby. He married and moved to East Kirkby where he farmed, he died in 1922 aged 79.
At the age of 15, Charles is living on a farm in Moorby working as a farm hand. Charles later became a farmer working for the Revesby estate. He married and lived on School Lane in a Mud and Stud cottage and later moved to Moorhouses. He died in 1929 aged 79.
William was employed on the Railways and in 1881 was a Rail Guard living with his wife and 2 children in Battersea London. They later moved to Hull where he died in 1929 aged 79.
In 1871 Mary, aged 15, is working as a live-in servant for Thomas Wilkinson the village butcher. By 1881 she was employed as a live-in Cook for the Rector of St Peters Church Toynton All Saints. In 1901 she was living with and working for her mother. In 1911 she was employed as a live-in cook for Dr Mann at Revesby. In 1939 she was working as a live-in house assistant at Mill Farm with her nephew and his wife. She died in Oct 1945 aged 88 and is buried in the village cemetery.