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22/11/2023

HOW TO KNOW IF THE MAN YOU ARE DATING IS A RESPONSIBLE MAN?

Like right now the signs of a person who can pay school for the kids tomorrow are all over but you have refused not to see it.

You are in a relationship with a guy but you're the one who gives him 80% of your income and talks less about other things

Today, he asks you for money to help settle his debts
Tomorrow he borrows your money for his mum's health
The next tomorrow he is in a tight corner and needs you to bail him out

He borrows and never pays back and when you try asking him for a refund he is like you don't have the right after all you're his girlfriend and he will marry you.

You have been dating him for years. But you have nothing I mean nothing tangible that he has never offered to you. That you can boast of and say this was given to you by this uncle. Even the one you can try to Scrabble something about, deep in you, you know it was logic that you used if not...

The data you use in sending pictures to him is your money, airtime is still your own that you people use in mushy feelings and emotional talk.

When you have issues that require money he brings up thousands of excuses. You ko explain sotey tire. No evidence. At times he even disappears from the scene and only appears when that part has disappeared.

Some don't even bother asking how you went about it. And some only advise...

And there you're lavishly playing a supportive girlfriend or wife role in a relationship, lol.

He claims he is still building and has nothing for now. He might still have it tomorrow and won't still give you a done. Truth be told!

He keeps promising you heaven earth and paradise...
He says he shouldn't bother when he finally leaves the country he will take good care of you blah blah; the lies some craft

You people might not be wrong and I am not 100% wrong too. There's some sense in all of us. So let us reason it out :

I am someone who believes so much in time and seasons. I am an avid believer that life is a process and it pays to wait. But how, and with whom you wait is uttermost substantial.

I am not against the fact that you can't assist your boyfriend if you can, you might have earned something earth-shattering while he is still figuring it out but there should be some touch of probity.

It's good to grow together in a relationship. We say it's pace-setting and the foundation we are laying but sisters know where and with whom you're laying the foundation. Know exactly whose land you are laying the foundation. And desiring to get hooked on well-to-do men is not mediocrity.

And I am not in any way saying that you should laz around and depend on a guy you're dating for the supply of your needs, no way!

The relationship is not a job. If you're idle and wish your needs attended to, go and get something doing. Like people will say, he is not your ATM

Don't be the baby buy me this, that,
Some of you don't even ask reasonable things to improve your lives, urgent 2k league. Most importantly a guy who loves you and is a giver will give you without you even asking.

In a nutshell, all I am trying to say is a guy who will take responsibility tomorrow is noticed during courtship same as a lady who can assist her man.

Don't visit shawarma joints and shirk these things.

We don't want complaints coming in tomorrow.
I pay the children's school fee
I take care of the house etc...

Make way while it's still morning.
Don't be selfish in the name of I love him. Don't just consider your emotions, that guy will soon be the father of your children. We have so many dysfunctional and life is already hard for them. Don't add to it.

If they cannot show you love and care now, is it marriage that they will?

Like we agreed he doesn't need to give you heaven and earth but a giver is a giver.

Having a thousand frs and giving you 200 is better than nothing at all

I know people can get married and change and to who is saying or about to say that some men show you love and eventually change when they get married to you but let marriage change them.

Why should you even think this way?

In all in order not to rack too much of your brain, give room to the holy spirit to reveal who you're dating

That's why we have it to avoid guesswork.

Good luck!

The narrative has changed
We now see beyond

© Kelly Stephen Kinang
~ Intentional Living Expert

16/06/2022

Discovering your identity is discovering who created you. You can't truly know who you're without knowing who created you in the first place ❤️

31/03/2022

The photocopy machine at my place was bad so, I went to a nearby documentation to print the document I needed to .

Therein, I met this girl who was also trying to print a document. But there was a problem. They couldn't find her file on the computer even though she enabled file transfer.

So, they proposed another option, but the girl couldn't get it, they proposed another and she was like please I don't know me all these things in the phone .

I only know my WhatsApp, Facebook and Instagram.(uploading photos, following celebs etc) when she said this, Cut in the quick; I was shocked not cos she doesn't know these things but she knows Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram etc.

Thunderstruck, I stared at her, wanted to squelched but the Jesus girl in me..

This wasn't even a perception for me to grin at; so I merely shrugged.

I don't know if, her not knowing was cos she isn't lended which, I don't think so, cos she could read and write but knowing those stuffs isn't her kind of knowing but media?yes!

I didn't bother asking, cos even if I did, her answers will dangling at something unreasonable from the way she spoke.

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See many of us are like this young girl I met. We claim we're an Android generation, but nothing is android about us. We're the software age but things are instead hard on us.

Some of us have good phones with data connection every minute and second yet,we can't construct a perfect complete English statement.

We keep updating status with errors, edited picture with wrong usage of words,but we've never thought it wise to correct ourselves.

What about speaking to people in public mmm sad case. We can't, not as if we're the shy type but cos we don't know what to say and when we can't even utter two or three words without mistakes.

I know mistake is human but are we even trying at all?

It's a calamictous SHAME that, despite what technology has place at our noses and feet we still don't do anything with it .

We're busy doing tiktok videos, catching cruise and chilling with the big boys but we can't hold a computer mouse.

There's Google
There's YouTube and other interesting sites to learn free skills but we ain't doing anything.

We know absolutely nothing!

Your parents send you to school but ain't doing anything beneficial to help them promote the sole proprietor business they're managing to pay your tuition and accommodation.

It's indeed a shame
It's a pity!

No one has ever gotten it all
Neither has any arrived but we should be in motion. If the life of Christ that flows through us,it's not stagnant but dynamic.

If you're in this category please change
We're all work in progress, however we're not permitted to be stagnant.

The narrative has changed
We now see beyond 🔥

What are your thoughts on this?
Please share in the comments section.

©Kelly Stephen Kinang
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16/02/2022

Is it ENOUGH?

We came on and we're on Earth, instead to seek, the kingdom we're seeking other things

This gives us the notion that we're humans. But forgetting to know we came here to establish his kingdom.

So with regards to this, some of us who have been blessed to know Jesus are now trying to be spiritual.

This is indeed awesome. In fact it is "fabusome". We're all vacums and if the spirit of God doesn't fill up, another entity will do .

But the question on ground is: is being spiritual enough?

Yes sister we know you love God
You want to be like Jesus
After this then what?

I am writing to my fellow sisters and brothers in the faith which apart from fasting and praying in tongues for 12hours have nothing to offer.

Heya! Come on beloved, I am not diverting. This Kingdom we came to established also means we take over.

Jesus Christ is our advantage. We need to represent him everywhere.

For the fact that, you know the Bible and can quote scriptures back to back isn't an excuse not to learn a skill.

Praying in tongues doesn't stop you from working.
The fact that you can usher and sing well in the Choir is not a plus.

For some of us we know just the Bible and prayers and that's all
But there're inborn talents wasting in us without being unleashed for the world to see.

You just know how to pray
But you have no skill of your own
Nothing at all .

If you'vent been opportuned to gain formal education, learn a skill and master it.

Whatever you've found your heart panting for, devote your time to it until you become a boss there.

Is it baking you want ? Be a professional baker. Don't also just be a cut and joint tailor if you want to be one. Remember there's dignity in all labour.

See beloved don't be cut in this web this year.

Morethan the spiritual accolades, take time and innitiative to build your esteemed self in other areas of life. Just find yourself.

But in all thy being, be and remain a holistic lady/gentle Man.
We're spirits trying to be humans.

I hope this meets you well

The narrative has changed
We now see beyond

© Kelly Stephen Kinang ✍️

29/05/2021

You call me a sanctimonious bitch all because I refused to be part of the world's slay momma. 😆

I am in the world but not of this world.
You are carried easily by what you see and then mock me for not being able to see it.

I look not at the things which are seen but at the things that are not seen.

For the things which are seen are temporal but the things which are not seen are 𝓮𝓽𝓮𝓻𝓷𝓪𝓵.

You say I'm too decent and then you wear skimpy outfits feeling that you're overloaded.
Hmmm
No you're not. Why do you want to become an empty vessel?

I know what I carry.
I carry the consciousness of God.
I am the 𝓘𝓝𝓓𝓦𝓔𝓛𝓛𝓘𝓝𝓖 place of Christ.

While you choose to lodge at a hotel in the night for a lover(man)

I tarry on my knees loving my lover. My Abba Father.

You think using words like bitch, f**k and hoe makes you more knowledgeable. Funny.

I know I'm a 𝓟𝓻𝓸𝓹𝓱𝓮𝓽.
I can't be careless with my words.
Not even for a minute.
My words carry power.

How long will you continue having abortions when contraceptives failed.

Out of my belly flows Rivers of Living Water.
I birth solutions.
I am intentional about speaking forth blessings to my seeds.

Children of Zion don't mock the price paid by Jesus Christ.

How can we allow ourselves to conform to the things of this world?

So what if they mock you for not conforming to the standard of this world?

See we are Jesus Children
And we are unapologetic about the fact that we are children of God.

Yes they say we love Him
We love God like that.

Ehenn they said we are crazy

We are not just crazy.
We are crazy for Christ.
They say we are rigid. Not only are we rigid😎
We are desperately rigid for Christ.

We understand that we were paid for with a price.
So why do you expect that we would want to negotiate in the first place.
Never!

Children of God.
Calm down. Just give it time and run away from every distraction that is coming your way.

The truth of the matter is that you may not know where you are heading.

14/03/2021

It is no not unspiritual to be challenged but anti-covenant to be defeated. Stick to your process. Happy Sunday ❣️

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