15/09/2026
A Prayer for Marriage
Gracious and Heavenly Father,
We thank You for the gift of marriage,
for companionship, friendship, love and covenant;
for the privilege of building a life together
and of learning, day by day, how to love.
Renew our minds, O God.
Where we have carried traditions that are harmful, give us wisdom to examine them.
Where we have misunderstood one another, give us understanding.
Where pride has entered, give us humility.
Where resentment has grown, give us grace to seek healing.
Where we have spoken harshly, teach us gentleness.
Where we have been silent when we should have spoken, give us courage.
Where we have spoken when we should have listened, give us wisdom.
Teach us to love with the charity of Christ.
Help husband and wife to see one another again—not merely as the people we first married, but as the people we are continually becoming.
When bodies change, give us tenderness.
When children arrive, give us patience.
When work becomes difficult, give us strength.
When parents grow old and need care, give us wisdom.
When the household becomes heavy, teach us to carry the burden together.
When one is weak, let the other remember compassion.
When one succeeds, let the other rejoice.
When we disagree, keep us from becoming enemies.
When we fail, teach us repentance.
When we hurt one another, teach us forgiveness and changed behaviour.
Protect our homes from control, humiliation, manipulation, violence, dishonesty and every form of abuse.
Teach us that authority is responsibility,
that leadership is service,
that submission is not humiliation,
that love is not ownership,
and that marriage does not make one human being the possession of another.
Let our homes become places where truth can be spoken safely,
where children can grow without fear,
where forgiveness is possible,
where laughter is welcome,
where prayer is natural,
and where Your presence is honoured.
Make our marriage a place of worship—not because we are perfect, but because we continually turn our hearts toward You.
May our kitchen know gratitude.
May our table know fellowship.
May our rooms know peace.
May our backyard know companionship.
May our doors welcome what is good and guard what is precious.
May our windows remind us to look both inward at our own household and outward at the world You have called us to serve.
And when we look upon the life You have entrusted to us, teach us to say:
“Lord, this is Your gift. Teach us how to steward it well.”
Help us never to make our spouse our god,
our children our god,
our possessions our god,
our traditions our god,
or our marriage itself our god.
You alone are God.
You alone are Lord.
And may Christ remain at the centre of our home.
As we seek to love one another,
teach us first to love You.
As we seek to forgive one another,
remind us of the grace You have shown us.
As we seek to serve one another,
teach us the servant-heart of Christ.
As we seek to build our home,
teach us to build it upon wisdom, truth, love and faith.
And when we cannot find the words,
teach us simply to come before You together and say:
“Lord, help us.”
May our marriages become places where love is practised,
where dignity is protected,
where responsibility is shared,
where forgiveness is learned,
and where Christ is honoured.
For we ask all these things through Jesus Christ our Lord,
who lives and reigns with You,
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Apostle Primate & Archbishop Metropolitan
St Ruth Cathedral in the Province of St Andrew ©️