06/08/2026
There’s an old story about a preacher visiting a member of his congregation who had become distant from the church-family and absent from the worship assemblies.
It was a cool evening and the man was sitting by a fire place. After the initial greetings, the man confided in the preacher that he felt disconnected from the church, but insisted that he could be a good Christian on his own.
The preacher, without a word, took the fire tongs, reached into the fireplace, and pulled a single burning log out from the rest. He placed it on the hearth, separate from the fire. The two men sat in silence for a few minutes, watching as the lone ember’s warmth and glow slowly diminished, fading into a dull, lifeless coal.
The preacher then turned to the man and said, “This is what happens when you separate yourself from the fellowship of believers.”
This story, while no doubt apocryphal, illustrates the importance of Christian fellowship and the danger of spiritual isolation. Just as the log needs other logs to stay ablaze, people need one another to stay spiritually vibrant. Christian fellowship helps form strong relationships with others who share a love for God, Jesus, and the Bible, which is crucial for maintaining faith and enthusiasm.
Hebrews 10:24-25 instructs us not to neglect the assembly of the saints, but to encourage one another.
“And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”
Although I don’t agree with all of his theology, Rick Warren was right when he wrote, ‘You are called to belong, not just believe.” In his book What On Earth Am I Here For? Subtitled The Purpose Driven Life, Warren writes that Christians are “create for community, fashioned for fellowship, and formed for family.”
Warren observes that our local fellowship in the church family moves us away from “self centered isolation.” You can’t keep your spiritual fire aflame by yourself. We need one another to grow in the spiritual disciplines necessary to become more like Christ. There are at least 59 “one another” commands in the Bible that speak to the importance of our fellowship, and at least imply the danger of isolationism.
Serving one another (Galatians 5:13)
Loving one another (John 13:34-35)
Encouraging and building each other up (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Confessing sins to each other and praying for each other (James 5:16)
Bearing one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2)
Being kind, compassionate, and forgiving one another (Ephesians 4:32)
Instructing one another (Romans 15:14)
Living in harmony with one another (Romans 12:16)
While pondering this post, I asked ChatGPT about the danger of isolation to our zeal. I know don’t his religious affiliation, but I thought AI gave a pretty good answer.
“Spiritual zeal—our passionate pursuit of God and His purposes—is not sustained in a vacuum. One of the greatest threats to maintaining spiritual fervor is isolation from the Christian community. While personal devotion is vital, God never intended for believers to walk the path of faith alone. From the earliest days of the church, Christians have been called into fellowship, mutual encouragement, and shared worship. When a believer becomes isolated—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—the fire of zeal is at risk of fading into smoldering embers.”
While it ought to be obvious that our spiritual fervor and fire is stoked by togetherness with fellow Believers, the opposite is true. Isolationism leads to discouragement, disillusionment, and defeat. Proverbs 27:17 offers this counsel, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” However, isolationism denies us that opportunity. Left on our own, the fire can soon flicker, fade and finally be snuffed out.
Furthermore, be advised that just causally attending service without any meaningful interaction will not keep your passion alive. Those who arrive late and leave early rarely maintain or increase their spiritual fervor. In fact, the “one another” commands speak to personal involvement with fellow Christians outside the confines of the assembly.
Our journey is a shared journey. Together we fan the flame for one another to keep the fire burning bright.
–Ken Weliever, The Preacherman
