03/29/2026
When something difficult stands before us and no option feels clearly holy, it’s very easy to retreat into the phrase, “It’s God’s will.” But that can become a way of avoiding the deeper calling placed within us. God’s will is not passive resignation—it is an invitation to engage fully with what is before us. We are given a heart to feel, a mind to discern, faith to trust, and hope to guide us through uncertainty.
Sometimes every available path carries some measure of pain, imperfection, or even what appears to be sin. In those moments, the task is not to find a flawless option, but to discern which path most closely reflects love. That kind of discernment is difficult and often uncomfortable, because it requires responsibility rather than certainty.
Many people, however, are afraid of getting it wrong with God. Fear of judgment or punishment can lead them to cling tightly to fixed rules or church teachings, treating them as a safeguard against error. But in doing so, they may refuse to allow the space where genuine moral discernment happens. They substitute obedience to structure for the harder work of love.
Yet church teachings, like all human systems, can fall short. They are attempts to express divine truth, but they are not the fullness of it. When they are followed without reflection, they can sometimes lead to outcomes that are less loving than a sincere, compassionate choice made in good faith.
In this way, people can become like Pilate—symbolically washing their hands of responsibility. By deferring entirely to rules or declaring something “God’s will,” they avoid the burden of choosing. But love does not allow us to step back so easily. It calls us to step in, to wrestle with the tension, and to act with as much compassion and integrity as we can.
To follow God is not simply to obey—it is to discern, to choose, and to love, even when the path is unclear.