10/11/2026
Reflection- “Building Bridges By Giving Thanks” Based on Luke 17:11-19
When I was growing up, I had a love-hate relationship with writing thank you notes. It was something that my mom always had to remind me about after any special occasion when I received a gift from someone else-whether it be a birthday, Christmas, or some other special occasion. And every time, I found myself struggling to find the right words to acknowledge what I had gratefully received to the person that I had received it from, making it a chore that I did not look forward to. Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t that I was not grateful for the gift, but I just didn’t understand what difference it could make whether I sent the giver a thank you note or not.
It wasn’t until years later, when Ian and I got married, that I developed a new appreciation of what saying thank you can mean. In between our wedding day and the time when we were scheduled to move to our new home in New Brunswick, my new spouse and I found ourselves with a bit of time on our hands, and so we decided to devote that time to sending out the thank you notes to acknowledge all of the wedding and shower gifts we had received in the lead up to our ceremony. I remember how we split the list between us, with Ian writing notes to the folks that were on his side of the guest list, while I would acknowledge the gifts that came from my side of the family and those who were exclusively my friends. When we finished writing our thank you’s, we would trade notes and sign our names next to each other’s on the note before putting them in the envelopes to be addressed and stamped. Each time we would do this, we would read who the note was being addressed to, and if it was someone that we ourselves did not know, the one who wrote the note would tell us a little bit about the person, and how we were connected with them. For example, Ian would tell me about his aunt Jean, who I had only met briefly, while I would tell him about my childhood friend Glenda, allowing us to become better connected to those who had thought about us at this special time in our lives. My take away from this experience was an unexpected gift in itself, the understanding that the act of expressing thanks can build bridges that connect us, one to another, in a new and life giving way.
In our reading from Luke’s Gospel today, we find that a simple expression of thanks actually rebuilds a number of bridges in the life of the one who takes a moment to offer their gratitude to Jesus. In identifying the thankful individual in this account as both an afflicted individual and as a Samaritan, the writers of Luke remind us of the multiple obstacles that stood between this person and their inclusion in the culture of that particular time and place. As someone with what was believed to be a contagious skin disease (believed to be leprosy, a non fatal but debilitating condition), this person had been relegated to the outskirts of town, having to beg for the minimum of kindness and compassion from those who were travelling from one community to another, all while keeping their physical distance from those that they might meet along the way.
In this aspect of their isolation, this individual was not alone, as at least nine other similarly afflicted souls had made their home in that in between location, having been similarly marginalized by their commonly held condition. But even within that small, newly formed community, this singled out individual had another identifying feature that set them forever apart from their new neighbours in exile-their roots in the Samaritan culture. Remember, those who were Samaritan did not mix well with those who were from the Judaic culture, being regarded as enemies that were to be ignored, if not aggressively dismissed whenever their paths crossed. Funnily enough, this Samaritan was able to find community with the other nine, rooted in the affliction that they all had in common, but even in that small group, this person was still recognizable as being somehow even more separate from the group, based on what social group they identified with apart from their illness.
When Jesus comes into this group of ten’s orbit, the barrier created by illness is front and center, forcing the group to keep themselves apart from Jesus while still calling out to Him for whatever help He might be able to administer. Like He has done and will do with those kinds of stumbling blocks to community, Jesus does not allow them to separate those who need His help from receiving it, instructing all of them to go and have their restored health confirmed by the religious authorities in their communities, thereby giving these folks the direction they will need to reconnect themselves with the social and family circles that their illnesses had disconnected them from for so long.
As the ten of them make their way back into their geographic communities, the one who had been kept apart from those around them by both physical and social barriers alike makes the choice to turn back and say thank you to the one who had helped to restore them, even though that person was still representing a culture that was different and even hostile to the one this person had come from and was now able to return to. Perhaps this is why Jesus seems so surprised that of the ten who were cured, it was only this one person who came back to honour the connections that had been made through this act of healing-the connections between this person and their restored health, and the renewed connections between this person and the community they were now free to fully return to. But in acknowledging this expression of gratitude, perhaps Jesus is pointing to another connection that this person has decided to make through their act of giving thanks-one between two people from opposing cultures, who would now be forever connected through this act of healing and thanks that had been exchanged between them. And perhaps when Jesus tells the Samaritan that their faith has made them well, maybe He is referring to more than the physical ailments that had held this person apart from others for so long, that maybe more healing between people could result from this moment of thanksgiving.
When we turn our attentions to the notion of giving thanks for the blessings that are part of our lives, it’s important to hold before us the power that these expressions of thanks have to connect us more deeply and fully to those around us. When we acknowledge what we have received from another, it brings us closer to each other and to God in life giving ways that have the potential to bring healing and renewal to our lives and our world, reminding us that we are not alone, and that we are here for each other each and every day. In times of such division, it can’t hurt to turn our attentions and take time to acknowledge those exchanges that can and do bring us together. In fact, it might help in some way.
I’d like to close today’s reflection with one more story. When my mother died in 2013, my family and I held a visitation at the funeral home the night before Mom’s celebration of life. I don’t remember much about that occasion, but one memory that stands out for me to this day is an encounter that my brother and I had at the very end of the last visitation period. At the end of the line of mourners was a gentleman that neither my brother or I had ever met before. This gentleman came and shook hands with both of us and then said these words “I have never met either of you before, but your mother was one of the custodial care workers who sat with my wife in the hospital while she was dying of cancer a few years ago. When I heard that your mother had passed away, I had to come and say thank you to her, through the two of you, for the love and care and concern that she gave to me and my wife during that time in the hospital. You will never fully know what that meant to me and my family, but I still wanted to come and offer my thanks, and to let you know how special your mom was”. To this day, I cannot remember the name of that gentleman, but I will always remember how the sacred connection that his words of thanks built between his family and ours at that time of grief and sadness. May we do all that we can, on Thanksgiving day and beyond, to honour those precious connections however we can. May it be so. Amen