05/29/2026
In Gratitude
to the Congregation of Marshall Memorial
Dear friends,
Thank you so much for the retirement party you hosted for me last Sunday. I was overwhelmed by your generosity. I had heard that a luncheon was being planned following morning worship, but I had no idea it would be such an elaborate celebration.
Thanks to all who decorated the hall and set the tables, complete with beautiful decorations reminiscent of walks on the beach — something close to my heart. Thank you to the MM Sunday School children, residents of Highgate retirement community and others, who created wonderful centrepieces for the head tables: with trees and rocks and campfires and beach shells; with a campfire and s’mores, complete with roasting sticks and marshmallows; and then with direction signs inviting exploration, swimming, hiking, rock climbing, kayaking, canoeing, partying…! Oh, what adventures await me. Pictures of hiking boots, binoculars, cameras, an RV, a tent, a backpack, barbecue, lantern, mountains, fish and trees… all luring me toward the possibilities to come. Thanks also to the Marshall Memorial youth for the beach stone art piece depicting a mountain climber. And then there was the “forest of colours,” presumably coloured by the children at Marshall with images of creation on every page! How lovely to have such mementos that reflect the outdoors and so many things close to my heart. For years you have heard me say that for the Celts, there were two primary ways to know God – the little book of scripture and the big book of creation. I look forward to exploring that big book of creation and being spiritually nurtured.
And the lunch was delicious: wonderful pasta and salad, and a specialty cake to delight my taste buds, filling me both physically and spiritually. Thanks to those who worked prior to the event to set up and organize the hall, ordering and preparing food and making sure everything was ready to serve. Thanks to those who served food and drink. Thanks also to those who stayed to clean up after. I know there was much work done behind the scenes. Every time we eat together is an occasion of communion — where we are linked to the source of life and linked to others in community. The food gave sustenance to our bodies, and then enabled conversation and closer connection with each other. I enjoyed the conversations we shared and the opportunity to move around the room, connecting with many of you one last time. In all of these things, the divine presence hovered with grace.
And then there were your gifts, which were a surprise and a delight. For years, I have longed to have a cider press. Little do you know, but we have a small orchard on our schoolhouse property, with half a dozen mature apple trees, which produce abundant fruit every year. I love apple cider, and every fall, mention how great it would be to have a press and be able to turn our harvest into cider. This year, we will be able to. And each time I use the press, I will remember all of you. However, I am looking forward to a long summer before I get to try it out.
And then on top of this, you gave me a gift certificate to the Stratford Festival — a place where I return year after year, to be enwrapped in the wonder of theatre. Many of the plays I have seen in the past have inspired sermons or weekly email reflections. As you know, I have a deep interest in the arts and how they inform spirituality. Theatre nourishes and inspires me, and gets me thinking about deeper connections. Thank you for your thoughtfulness. I wonder what we will see this summer and what new ideas that will spur?
I am honoured that my photo will now appear in the foyer of Marshall Memorial, along with other past ministers. And I am pleased that I have a copy of that photo on the oversized poster-card that many of you signed. And then there were all of your cards, hugs, phone calls and good wishes. These things all speak of relationship, and how we got inside each other in my four and a half years with you. I shall miss you. I know many were unable to be with us on Sunday, and I have been grateful for the conversations we have shared over the past few weeks, and for your sharing with me what my ministry has meant to you.
Alison, Kerry and I met each week to plan worship. As we planned this final Sunday, Alison said that she had written a special choral benediction for our leaving music. Oh, what a wonderful composition to experience, newly composed for the occasion. If I were staying, I would look forward to hearing it many times in the future — but you will have that privilege.
I was focused solely on worship for this final Sunday before retiring, and consequently, I was oblivious to other things happening. I did not know that Nicole and my girls had gone through photo albums and made digital images of dozens of them for a slide show. And at the same time, people from Marshall were also collecting photos of my ministry with you. So many of them I had never seen, or had not seen in years. I look forward to a chance to see them again. Here in digital form was a retrospective of my ministry, and my growing and changing family. I even caught glimpses of me windsurfing, and photos of each of my four daughters when they were young — to say nothing of my younger self, before grey hair. Watching those images filled me with delight and thanksgiving for all the stages of my life.
As you know, music is central to our life as a family. It was heartwarming to have Ilsa, Nell and Nicole sing that famous song from The Sound of Music — symbolically sung as a final blessing by the von Trapp family as they prepared to leave Austria, and on Sunday, sung with the same sentiments for our leave taking from you. And then, after some of you had left, there was one last musical event as Ilsa tap danced to a song I sing to my girls every Friday morning: “It’s the weekend, and I know that you’re free, so put on your jeans and come on out with me….” How appropriate as I now embark on an eternal weekend! I am filled with gratitude that God creates us as family, and for the support of my family through all of my ministry. To watch family members bring their own skills and abilities and do something totally original is heartwarming.
I was also oblivious to the fact that my wife was working behind the scenes contacting people from my past: university friends, parishioners from various churches I have served, and friends I have met along the way, and inviting them to join in this celebration, or send greetings. I was shocked to walk out of my office before church on Sunday morning and find some of those people in the narthex. It hadn’t even crossed my mind that this could happen. I was so thankful that my parents could also share in the occasion along with my two brothers living in Ontario. And then, there was my spiritual guide — whom I quoted twice in my reflection — sitting in the front row. Oh, to be surrounded by friends! The Psalmist (133) would say “behold, how pleasant, how good it is when God’s people are together. There is where God bestows the blessing…!”
And of course, thanks to our Marshall Unified Board and chairperson David Cairney, who brought his usual style with humour and wisdom to the role of MC. I felt embraced by you. I knew that the Board was doing some planning at the end of one of our meetings, but I had no idea how extensive those plans would be. For me, the whole occasion filled me with joy and a sense of accomplishment. I was grateful for the chance to interact with all of you one more time in the de-covenanting ceremony. Perhaps it is the only time we have all been together at the front of the church. It seemed like a fitting way to complete my ministry with you.
Following the pattern that has developed over the past few years, it seems appropriate that I share this last message with you on a Friday. I have been blessed by my experience with you, and I carry that with me as I move into retirement. I pray that my life with you has also been a blessing.
In Solidarity, and toward Shalom/Salem,
~Rev. Keith Hagerman
(and with thanks to my “long-suffering editor,” Nicole Langlois)