17/06/2026
𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐋𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐖𝐄𝐃 𝐌𝐄 𝐌𝐘 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐓𝐎𝐋𝐃 𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐘 𝐇𝐄𝐑:
My wife and I first met in 2017. At the time, we were simply friends. I was already serving as a pastor, and I came to know her through a good brother of mine, Apostle Sage. We developed a healthy friendship and related very well, but there was never any romantic relationship between us.
In 2018, my life took a painful turn when I lost my mother. The loss affected me deeply and I fell into depression. During that difficult season, my future wife remained a source of encouragement and support. At the time, I was in another relationship, so I never considered dating her. She simply stood by me as a genuine friend.
In 2019, tragedy struck again. I lost my girlfriend while I was still grieving the loss of my mother. Around the same period, I was also dealing with the passing of my grandmother. Emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, I was broken. The weight of grief was overwhelming.
Yet through it all, she continued to support me. Her kindness was sincere. She was not helping me because she wanted anything in return. She simply had a pure heart. I knew her motives were genuine.
One day, while alone in my room, the pain became unbearable. I had reached a point where I wanted to end my life. As I sat there crying, overwhelmed by hopelessness, something extraordinary happened. Suddenly, I saw a pure white hand appear before me. It gently touched my shoulder, and I heard a voice say: "It is well, My son."
The moment those words were spoken, power came upon me. I collapsed to the floor as though all strength had left my body. It felt as if I had no bones. The same hand and the same voice seemed to be delivering me from the darkness that had consumed me.
The room became filled with a mist, and a cold sensation entered my body. It felt like a cool breeze moving through my heart and mind. My entire body trembled under what felt like an electric current. I lay on the floor shaking and crying out, unable to understand what was happening. It felt as though I was dying, yet at the same time, I was being set free.
After that encounter, I saw a vision of the woman who is now my wife. Then the voice spoke again: "This is your wife. Go and marry her. Do not date her. Do not touch her or sleep with her, and I will bless you." I was a bit indenial why her of all the people? I was forced by God love and marry a woman I was not dating 🤣😂😅🤭 I chose to obey exactly what I had been told.
I approached her with marriage in mind, not trying to date her. I did not come to her and say I love you. I told her, God says you are wife, and that I should marry you, and she had already recieved the same vision of me as a husband ❤️🔥🙏😅.
Throughout our courtship, I honored the instruction I had received. We did not engage in sexual intimacy before marriage. It took over a year before we finally got married, but we remained committed to honoring God throughout the process.
Since that encounter in 2019, my life has never been the same. God healed me, restored me, and gave me a partner who has been a blessing beyond words. Looking back, I can clearly see the hand of God guiding every step of the journey.
I share this testimony not as a doctrine that everyone must follow, but as a witness to what God did in my life. God still speaks. He still guides. He still leads His children in ways that are personal and unique. Sometimes, God may choose to reveal a husband or wife to someone. When He does, He never makes a mistake.
Four years into marriage, I remain grateful for His wisdom, His guidance, and His faithfulness. The woman He showed me in a vision became the woman standing beside me today my wife, my friend, and one of God's greatest gifts to my life.
"𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐞; 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐇𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐇𝐞 𝐠𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐞."
To God be all the glory.
