04/03/2021
~ DEAR PARENTS,
Some youngster are unable to marry due to various conditions applied by their parents.
Some parents tell that their children should marry a financially stable person only, some say that their children are too young to marry, they think their kids still don't know responsibilities.
Some parents are too choosy based on their social status, some parents give in to their egos and don't support their children's decision, some are even jealous as to not let their children let them go away from them and eventually don't get a good match who would agree for all these conditions.
Finally, when it's too late, and when their children are getting old, they give their children in marriage to the next person who comes asking for a spouse, without even seeing if they match or like eachother. Some such marriages only end up in tragic, meaningless divorces.
Islam says to marry when we get the physical need for a life partner. If parents have been an obstacle, some children will try to fulfill their catnal desires in other available ways. From here on parents are also part of the sins the children do in the name of friendship or friends with benefits. They are also responsible for the sins and Zinah your children commit.
So dear parents, let go of your ego, unreasonable conditions and please give your children in marriage when they feel the need for it. I don't have to explain further of the need, you've passed that age of youth, you would know very well.
Now you might wonder that if you can wait to marry until you get old, why can't your children be patient. Back in your days, this situation was different, the youngsters now have extremely easy access to Zinah, and other filthy acts. So mindful about this grave sin that you are also accountable for.
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