10/06/2026
Reflection: SMALL GROUPS 6)
Our Church Vision states: ‘We are a caring community that seeks one
another’s good in every season of life. We walk alongside one another
spiritually, emotionally, and practically. We foster genuine relationships where
people are known, supported, and encouraged to grow in faith. We believe
that the best way for these relationships to fostered is through home groups.’
The Sydney CRC vision statement some years ago stated ‘… We recognize
the biblical teaching that the emphasis in life is not on the individual but on
the community, just as God, in Trinity, is a ‘communal God’ …’ That is the
key learning in this reflection. God is communal, so we as his image bearers
are as well.
In John 17 we have Jesus praying for his disciples that God will protect them
and assist them as Jesus sends them into the world with the gospel. Then in verses 20-25 Jesus
prays for us. Here, in a sense Jesus looks across time and history, and sees the likes of you and me,
and has us in mind. ‘My prayer is not for them alone (i.e. for the disciples). I pray also for those
who will believe in me through their message…’ What does Jesus pray for? ‘…that all of them may
be one…’ Now what is this oneness, this community based on? ‘…that all of them may be one,
Father, just as you are in me and I am in you...’ What Jesus says here is mind boggling- do you see
it? Jesus is inviting us into the relationship he has with the Father. Jesus is saying that the very
essence of what it is to be God, to be Father, Son and Holy Spirit, the triune God, the three in one,
is the basis for our unity and community.
When Jesus says ‘…you are in me and I am in you…’ he is
describing how the Trinity works. God, being three persons yet
one God is by his very nature a community. God is a relationship.
That is ultimate reality. God cannot be reduced any further. If we
reduce God to three individual persons, the three that form the
relationship, then we have three Gods. But God is one God, God is
the relationship. As John writes ‘God is love.’ For God to be love, it means he is a community- the
lover, the one loved and the love- all in one. So ultimate reality is not the individual person, but
the relationship is. Relationships are the most real things that are.
The thing that makes relationships is that each puts their focus on the
other. Love is other-person-centred, not self-centred. That is what we
see in God, in the relationship between the Father, the Son and the Holy
Spirit. Each one is not self-centred. Each is focused on the other, each
lives for the other. In John 3:35 we read that ‘The Father loves the Son
and has placed everything in his hands.’ In John 5:20 Jesus says, ‘The
Father loves the Son and shows him all he does.’ The Father is Son-
oriented. In response Jesus, the Son, always does what pleases the
Father. The Son is completely focused on the Father, obedient to do his will, serving him in
everything. This obedience is not forced but is an expression of the Son’s love for the Father. In
John 8:28 Jesus says that the Son does nothing of himself but as the Father has taught him. This
focusing on the other, this deep sense of serving, being other person focused is the essence of
God. We see it with the Holy Spirit as well. We see that the Spirit never draws attention to himself
but always focuses our attention on Jesus. The Spirit is self-effacing. He is incredibly modest. His
task is not to bring glory to himself, but to draw our hearts in belief to Jesus, to have us bring glory
to the Father.
What an amazing picture we see here. At the highest level of
power and might, at the highest level of being, God almighty,
we see a community of humble, deeply loving, serving
persons who focus all their attention on the other. In so
doing the three persons of God are each deeply loved, deeply
honoured and served, deeply appreciated. What an example
for us to be in community! When we, in our humility, ‘…are a
caring community that seeks one another’s good in every season of life,’ we are simply doing
what our humble serving God has always done in eternity. When we as his image bearers, saved
by grace, humbly serve each other we reveal the wonder and glory of God.