17/08/2024
“More of what? Solace? Well, that's the one million dollar question, sister.
Basically, you will never be able to attain solace until you know your destination and you know the value of this life.
And if you really know the value of this life, you will never grieve over what you miss in this life.”
مَا أَصَابَ مِن مُّصِيبَةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَلَا فِي أَنفُسِكُمْ إِلَّا فِي كِتَابٍ مِّن قَبْلِ أَن نَّبْرَأَهَا إِنَّ ذَلِكَ عَلَى اللَّهِ يَسِيرٌ
‘No afflictions befalls you on the earth or in yourselves, except that it is inscribed in a book before we bring it to existence. Verily, this is easy for Allah.’
لِكَيْلَا تَأْسَوْا عَلَى مَا فَاتَكُمْ وَلَا تَفْرَحُوا بِمَا آتَاكُمْ وَاللَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ كُلَّ مُخْتَالٍ فَخُورٍ
[God is saying] ‘I am telling you this so that you do not grieve over what you missed and do not have excessive joy over what you have gained. And Allah does not like the boastful, the proud.’
So to believe in predestination, to believe that things have been inscribed way before we were created in a book, in the preserved tablet, gives us a great deal of solace.
Actually, Henry Benson from the Mind Body Institute of Harvard University said that there is nothing that quiets the mind more than knowing that all things are under the control of One Hand. There is nothing that quiets the mind more than knowing that all things are under the control of one hand. That is exactly what we have.
That is our aqidah in qadr.”
From Sheikh Hatem al-Haj: Hadith 2 [of the 40 of Imam Al Nawawi]
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6QxfZ7WVm4csgXnxZUdtbs?si=slZ4rct3Sr-GW4NI3YnCOg
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