05/01/2024
Gossiping Inside The Church
Gossiping inside the church is a harmful and sinful practice that can lead to discord, strife, and a separation from God. In my writings, I have emphasized the negative effects of gossip and talebearing, as they open the door for Satan to work and undermine the faith of many. When sisters who are prone to talk get together, Satan often takes advantage of the situation, stirring up the mind and causing harm. Gossip, tale-bearing, and revealing of secrets only serve to separate the soul from God and hinder spiritual growth. It is important for us to guard our tongues and use our words to have a positive influence for good. Instead of engaging in gossip, let us strive to uplift and encourage one another, promoting unity and harmony within the church.
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Worldliness in the Church169 and discovering others’ infirmities. Such conversation is censurable in any person. It is unprofitable and positively sinful. It tends only to evil. The enemy knows that if this course is pursued by Christ’s professed followers, it is opening a door for him to work. I saw that when sisters who are given to talk get together, Satan is generally present, for he finds employment. He stands by to excite the mind and make the most of the advantage he has gained. He knows that all this gossip, and tale-bearing, and revealing of secrets, and dissecting of character, separate the soul from God. It is death to spirituality and a calm religious influence. Sister U sins greatly[186] with her tongue. She ought by her words to have an influence for good, but she frequently talks at random. Sometimes her words put a different construction upon things than they will bear. Sometimes there is exaggeration. Then there is misstatement.
Source: docs/en_2T.pdf
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255 The Effects of Criticism of Church and Institutional Leaders The spirit of gossip and talebearing is one of Satan’s special agencies to sow discord and strife, to separate friends, and to under- mine the faith of many in the truthfulness of our positions. Brethren and sisters are too ready to talk of the faults and errors that they think exist in others, and especially in those who have borne unflinchingly the messages of reproof and warning given them of God. The children of these complainers listen with open ears and receive the poison of disaffection. Parents are thus blindly closing the avenues through which the hearts of the children might be reached. How many families season their daily meals with doubt and ques- tionings. They dissect the characters of their friends, and serve them up as a dainty dessert. A precious bit of slander is passed around the board to be commented upon, not only by adults, but by children. In this God is dishonored. Jesus said: “Inasmuch as ye have done it
Source: docs/en_CCh.pdf
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There are more gatherings for singing than for prayer among our people; but even these gatherings can be conducted in so reverential yet cheerful a manner that they may exert a good influence. There is, however, too much jesting, idle conversation, and gossiping to make these seasons beneficial, to elevate the thoughts and refine the manners.—Testimonies for the Church 4:67.
Source: docs/en_GW92.pdf
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at variance, they should be suspended till they can harmonize. Upon the occurrence of trials in the church let all the members examine their own hearts to see if the cause of trouble does not exist within. By spiritual pride, a desire to dictate, an ambitious longing for honor or position, a lack of self-control, by the indulgence of passion or prejudice, by instability or lack of judgment, the church may be disturbed and her peace sacrificed. Difficulties are often caused by the vendors of gossip, whose whispered hints and suggestions poison unsuspecting minds and separate the closest friends. Mischief-makers are seconded in their evil work by the many who stand with open ears and evil heart, saying: “Report, . . . and we will report it.” This sin should not be tolerated among the followers of Christ. No Christian parent should permit gossip to be repeated in the family circle or remarks to be made disparaging the members of the church.
Source: docs/en_HB.pdf
ELLEN G. WHITE
