02/09/2026
When they arrived, Samuel took one look at Eliab and thought, “Surely this is the Lord’s anointed!” But the Lord said to Samuel, “Don’t judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:6-7)
We’ve all heard the saying, “Don’t judge a book by its cover” but it’s not as simple as that, is it? We do, actually, make a stack of decisions about people and things based on what we see on the outside because that’s really all we’ve got to go on.
In fact, when we look at someone, we don’t really see them, we see the colours of light bouncing off them. That’s the way our bodies have been designed to work. Our eyes perceive light. So, we have no way of knowing what a person is really like until we’ve spent sufficient time with them; we need to gather many experiences of them in order to know them.
Not so with God.
He created us, so He knows us intimately from that process. But more than that, God is not limited in how he sees; He’s not bound by the same laws of physics that He created. God sees into the heart.
When the Bible refers to our heart it’s not just referring to our emotions, it’s talking about our inner selves. It includes our thought life, our emotional self, our personality, even our hopes, dreams and worldview. He sees and understands us not because He looks into the future to see what were going to do on the outside, but because He sees into the real us. Entirely. Completely. Better than we see ourselves.
So, for those scared of intimacy, don’t run! This is a good thing! We all have a desire to be loved, accepted, included (even us introverts!)
There is no purer form of love than when someone knows all our secrets, not just the mask we present to the world, and chooses to love us anyway. There’s no purer form of acceptance than when someone knows all the thoughts and feelings we’ve had against them and still chooses to accept us anyway. There’s no purer form of inclusion than when we’re embraced by someone who really, truly knows us.
Don’t get me wrong, God doesn’t like everything He sees in us, which is why He transforms us at salvation and renews us every day, calling us to become like Him. But There’s nothing in us, nothing we could do, nothing about us that annoys Him so much that He doesn’t want relationship with us.
God knows us completely… and He loves us anyway.